She has suddenly been agreeing to let DH pick up SS again, so he texted her for the time when it would be best to get him, after work, we headed out, she even agreed to meet us much closer then the 1.5 hr both way route, so that was a plus, we get there, he texts her and tells her that we're here, she sends a text back saying, why are you there so early, I told you between 6:30-7 at this time, it is 6:32 so we're confused of course, she then texts back, I won't be there until 8, so then of course DH texts back, Umm then we're leaving, we'll try this again next weekend, So then she starts with the "F*ck you,and your b*tch, I'm gonna tell your son that you chose p*ssy over him, and that you're not coming to get him, then I'm going to have to listen to him cry because he really wanted to see you, this is the last time you're going to do this, don't call my phone, and you can't get him!" on and on with this nastiness for awhile, We are taking her to court for custody & visitation, so she clearly hasn't rec'd the affidavit yet, because DH sent back a text that said, "Well, I'll see you in court" and she sent back "I'm tired of your f*ckin, threat's, take me to court, I'll be waitin on you, f you and your lawyer" were the exact words. So my thoughts were, she definitely has not received the papers yet because I know she's an idiot, but she gave us all the ammunition we needed besides being a bad mother, in one text.. So, after an hour or so she continued on with I told you this time, I told you that time, which who cares at this point, right? So DH then tells her, well bring SS to our house then, we're not going back out..She hems and haws about it for an hour than says that the only reason why she is agreeing to bring SS is because, SS really wanted to see DH and that she didn't have a change of clothes for him. She has a serious issue with control, she always wants to be the one to run things but never the one to comply. Come to find out, she was coming all the way out to our side of town anyway to "run the streets" with her cousin,so why make us drive all that way if you were coming this way? BM & her cousin finally dropped SS off at our very beautiful home @ 11:15 last night.. What?! When DH went to the car he said her and her cousin were all dolled up, heels and everything- She did tell him "nice house" to which DH of course said "thank you" She is a hot smoldering mess and I'm so tired of this sh*t, we have to wait until May for the court date, our lawyer already sent us a letter with the date but there's nothing in the court dockets yet, our lawyer is the same lawyer that is being used for the father of her middle son, so we are loving that, we talk to BM's ex and his wife all the time and compare stories- our next court dates are 4 days apart and I hope it's with the same judge so the courts can see just what a trash-ball this broad is.. What is BM's problem, I'm really sick of it! BM is always trying to make DH answer the question of, nothing comes before your son right, nobody comes before your son right? You're not putting other plans in front of your son right, the next time she texts that to him, I told him to text back "My ENTIRE family comes first, period.., now get over it!" I'm spent.... Also he hasn't been in daycare for months and is very very behind, he has the capabilities of a 2 year old and he'll be 5 in August, she told DH that SS doesn't need to do anything extra.. Wow.. his vocabulary consists of 25 words tops..