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WOW! BM Just sent DH a text threatening him and harassing him basically

mrsparks's picture

It was about a 3 page text asking him if he wants SS for the summer
DH responded with, We'll discuss that in court.
She then came back with "Our lawyers are great friends, they want us to come to an agreement out of court"
DH responded with, We'll discuss that in court..

Our lawyer is dealing with her as the attorney of her Ex and has bluntly told us, there is no reasoning with this woman, and that we actually want to try to take this straight to a judge with no mediation if possible because she's a psychopathic narcissist.

She then came with the craziness talking about quit discussing this situation with your wife, she has nothing to do with this..

Oh really..

He cut her off with "Quit texting me.. I'm eating!"

There's a ton more she was saying to him, but way too much to write.. BM told him that she would get his child support lowered if we would agree to pay for SS's childcare and ALL of his expenses, that's exactly how she worded it..

If we're going to pay ALL of SS's expenses, then he will have to live with us to reap the benefits.. RIGHT??? Isn't that logical?

This nut-job gets on my last nerve!!

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mrsparks's picture

She wants everything her way, and I believe she thinks we're morons..
I don't have time to play with this chick..

She told DH that he had better "watch his approach" with her..

Sounds like a threat to me!

mrsparks's picture

And EOW although we get him every -she comes with some b.s. and crazy talk
As soon as DH doesn't comply with what she is asking or what
she says, you would be shocked to see the expletives that fly through text from the idiot..

JMC's picture

JamaicanMeCrazy
DISNEY LIED...THERE IS NO 'HAPPILY EVER AFTER'

Like the wife is just going to sit by and not be involved? Whether we want to or not, we're stuck right in the middle of it! Plus we're the ones who get to put up with DH bad moods after BM gets through reaming him.

stuknaz's picture

I get so sick of being the whipping boy because of something BM said or did or didn't do. But DH says "it's not directed directly at you honey!" :O Well hell I don't see anyone else in the room!! I didn't tell you to lay down with taht money grubbing whack job 17 years ago! thank God he never married her!!

"And this too shall pass..."

mrsparks's picture

Thankfully he never married her, but having a child with her is equally as horrifying!

mrsparks's picture

She basically doesn't have SS in daycare and can't get him back into daycare, due to her lack of a job/money and many bridges burned-
I believe she's aware that we weren't bluffing about taking her to court for custody and now she's trying "EVERYTHING" to get DH to bow down to her.. by her idle threats etc.
She called the police on him in March, saying that she felt threatened by him coming to get SS- This was after he texted her to say he was on his way-[pretty sneaky sis]
I can't deal with this nut-
I slept horribly last night-

BMJen's picture

comment. Why wouldn't you discuss it with your wife? For heavens sake, when will some of these BM's get it? Your his WIFE. She's the x. Does she really think her thoughts, and communication, are more important than his WIFE'S?? Hello......knock knock.....anyone home??

~Happiness is defined by the smile on your face, not the frown on others.~

mrsparks's picture

She knew DH would tell me and that it would p*ss me right off, which it did of course, but she'll never know it..

mrsparks's picture

My husband, My step-kid my business, they don't want to get it, they wish to rile us up!