MIL in the middle
I need an advise on how to handle my MIL telling my husband things about me and my actions as a SM.
The other day I went to the bathroom while my son(4 YO) and SS(almost 5 YO) were in my bedroom watching tv. When I got out of the bathroom I found my SS twerking in the back of my son. I was so mad, angry, frustrated becasue this is not the first time we see this type of behaviors in my SS. He has older brothers on his mom's side and he had mention a few times that he learned that from them.
I was very specific with him and sent him to his bedroom. at that moment my MIL that came to live in the country and is stayig in my place comes from dowstairs to find out what's going on. I tell him and she takes his grandson and start the classic converstaion: "honey are you ok", who teach you that" blah blah blah. Hey!! my innocent son was the one who got affected from all this...
I can't deal wth this situtation anyore is being bothering me and I made the rule under ANY circumstances I want my son left alone in the same room without the supervision of an adult.
She is constantly trying to change the way I do things in my house. The other day i got my son a little car on the day my SS was with his mom and she asked privately to my husban if I brought one to my SS.
There's so much that's happening that's making me feel absolutely disangage with my marital life right now.