My husband told me today that he is going to divorce me. With everything going on right now, it is not possible to move on it so we will co-habitate. I am struggling so much - I love my husband dearly and want to spend the rest of my life with him. At the beginning of our relationship, we went through a lot of bull**** with my family (parents, siblings). They don't like him, didn't accept him and pretty much cut me out of their lives. They were extremely toxic. This is still an area of contention for him as I have re-established a relationship with my parents but it doesn't involve him or his kids. It also took me way too long to address things - I mean, it was pretty horrible all the things they did and I was so ineffective dealing with it.
Now, its the kids, specifically my 16 year old daughter. She is very introverted, doesn't talk to most of us and makes my husband and step daughter feel ill at ease. My husband says he is tired of feeling un welcome in his own home. My daughter is very socially awkward but yet again, I have failed to really address this. Now my younger daughter is starting to model.
So, now my husband says he does not see this going anywhere but divorce. He doesnt respect me and resents me right now. I need to fix this, he is my best friend and I love him dearly. HELP!!!