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Submitted by MisundertsoodMa on Thu, 09/19/2019 - 7:27pm

Yesterday I was left with the children again and asked them to do their homework. Now mind everyday its an uphill climb because DW still hasn't not been home and will not speak with me.... -.-

Now asking them to do their homework is like beating to rocks together  because they want to run around the house and play and do other shit than what they are asked to do. Now i got really upset yesterday because 1. I hate having to hound to do homework. 2. As I am telling them to do their homework my SD decides to call her mother who answer for her by the way, To complain that i was being mean. When actuallty she didnt want to listen so she called her mother told her a lie when im trying to help them get their work done. 

As I trying to explain what was going on DW tells me to shut up and stop lying on her child and hangs up the phone on me. I was so angry because I am the one here helping them with their homework while she off doing God knows what with God knows who. But I'm lying on the child because I ws telling her to stop running around and to finish the homework then she can play. Like what is the problem here? I am doing the right thing by getting to do their homework. So why am I being scolded as if I am her child. 

Then you have my SS7 who like to to play instead doing his homework and we get home at 4:19. He will be sitting at the table til 7:30 doing homework by himself because he is always playing. Throwing temper tatrums because he is told to redo the homework. Like what am i to do cause im not beating him that's not my responsibility. And I am so tired of it because I hall my ass out of bed at 4:30am to get up and catch 2 buses to get to my job and when I come back home I should not be this fucking stressed. 

All in all like I said before I love these kids but I can not be pulling all this weight with no help. I feel like she is being unfair. I excepted to cook, clean, wash clothes, and make sure these kids do there homework with no help. While she is out and about doing what ever she wants. I am a wife not a slave. 

Lately I have been so overwhelm cause I focus everything on them and not on me. My health is not to go but its getting better. It really hard for me to eat or sleep because I just dont have the energy too. Im working on it slow but surely. Til Next time folks 

 

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lieutenant_dad's picture

Submitted by lieutenant_dad on Thu, 09/19/2019 - 7:53pm

"DW, I'm going out. You have 20 minutes to get home or your kids will be left alone. Or I can call DCS to take them, your choice."

If you think she'll become violent from that statement, then pack a bag and leave this relationship.

ndc's picture

Submitted by ndc on Thu, 09/19/2019 - 9:00pm

Why do you put up with this?  You are correct, you're a wife, not a slave, and you should be treated as such.  These aren't your kids.  They'll never be your kids.  You do not have authority to go along with your responsibility.  And finally, why do you want to be with a woman who is telling you to shut up, accusing you of lying and yelling at you as if you're a child?  People will treat you how you allow yourself to be treated.  Stop being a doormat and whipping girl.  Life is too short for that.