Really hurt, please help me.
My bfs 6 yr old daughter has been very mean lately. Weve been dating a year. Shes been mean, sarcastic, insulting, whispering when hes not around that she will never listen to me. She totally respects her mothers girlfriend. Had a big fight yesterday when I said that the daughters rudeness was driving me crazy. Bf said that he would kick me out so fast. I realize he felt backed into a corner and that i was attacking them, but he was with his daughters mother while she had her son and he to this day feels animosity for him. So he shoild get it. And i was not attacking anyone, just stating how her cruelty was really impacting me. He says shes only 6, she doesnt mean it. I get rhat. But hearing it every day is very very hurtful. Now im on the fence about our relationship and hes apologized for his words but now I dont know what to think. I feel so replacable, like my presence isnt valued, even though the whole family uses my car, i pay for things for his daughter, i watch her all the time. I dont know how to feel better.