Guys.. what to do...
SD16 met BM for breakfast this morning... and what did she do.. go on about how she regrets leaving SO.. this is now turning into every time (basically two years now) she sees SD, SS18 doesn't talk to her and who knows about SS20.
We were at SOs great nieces bday party.. (SOs nephew is only two years younger then me) SD met us there for 15 minutes and instantly tells me.
I don't know know what to do. I don't want to tell SD16 to NOT tell me. But I told SO I'm getting reallyyyy close to messaging BMs husband on the book. Which won't do anyone any good but this shit needs to stop.
SOs sister in law and most of his family said do it haha. I said to SO I am TIRED of constantly hearing about BMs regrets and this and that every blue moon she sees her kids. IT IS SOOO OLD. She just craves attention.
She WANTS the kids to tell SO.. she WANTS SO to message her... she WANTS us to fail (been together 8 years they have been divorced 12) she WANTS her back burner back... that's all he ever was...
SO says how she would love for us to get into with her.. I completely agree. When does it fucking end though...
I said do you get it?? Imagine having to listen to about how much someone "misses me" all the time.
The kids are getting older and it's getting more annoying! She isn't giving up!! She's married FFS!! Hasn't done anything for her kids in 10+ years!!
I've been sitting back for a few years now but what do we do? Just let it go on... I'm at a loss with this stuff.