Ended things with FDH last night. Cannot be in a relationship with only me, cannot fix his problems, rescue his kid, or mend his broken heart. Will not sacrifice everything I've accomplished so that he can feel better about the ruin of his first marriage. Ladies (and Gents), I just wanted to thank you for your support on this site and wish everyone the best whether they stay, go, or hang out in limbo for years and years without ever really finding an answer. Mine was made for me, it looks like.