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Is this some form of stalking?

losingmymind's picture

Submitted by losingmymind on Mon, 06/29/2009 - 10:04pm

My SD has her own personal email account. I sent her pictures of my other kids, family, etc. Come to find out BM logged in to SD's account and fowarded these pictures to her own personal account as well as her mother's account.

WHY? Yes, she is obviously psychotic but is this illegal to do? What right does she have to email around my children's pictures?

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Last Nerve's picture

Submitted by Last Nerve on Tue, 06/30/2009 - 6:53am

Also, I'm assuming that your SD is a minor, so I don't think it's illegal for BM to be in SD's email (but I could be wrong on that one).

On a side note:
I have told DH that BM will NEVER have pics of us, my kids, our pets, etc, in electronic form. There's just too much that can be done with them. BM bugged and bugged my SIL to email her a pic of her daughter (SD's only cousin) for SD. SIL (who absolutely detests BM) finally gave SD a pic, bit printed it off for her on regular paper. BM was livid, to say the least, that SIL did not email it to her.

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Submitted by Sita Tara on Tue, 06/30/2009 - 9:17am

I would probably do the same thing. BM is a curiosity to me, and if I have one flaw it's my fascination with the crazy woman. Her exF/ on again off again BF has a myspace page, and it's not marked private. I periodically go there and see if he has pics of her up. He changed his screenname once, and I wondered if he saw I had been to his page (not sure if he knows how to set that up or not.) But I don't care. I know enough about him to know that he would never tell BM I saw it, because he likely isn't supposed to have a MS knowing how paranoid BM is. He has no pics of her on there and is listed as single too.

So...
I'm a snoop sometimes. I would say that any pics you don't want SD to share, or BM to hijack I wouldn't send. That's the only way you can control it.

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Submitted by losingmymind on Tue, 06/30/2009 - 7:42pm

With the new technology it also forces us to stop sending hard pics as well. Those can easily be scanned in and saved to a computer. It is sick and sad that in order to keep my children out of her disgusting grimy gaze I will now have to keep SD from having any pictures of my family for her.

Yes, she is a minor. She is only 9. We only see her 8 weeks out of the year so we are aware from her for long periods of time which is why we USED to send pictures. No longer will they be sent though.

Maybe I think I might email BM from SD's account letting her know that it is both inappropriate and disgusting for her to be so interested in my family.