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losingmymind's picture

So if you could read your BM's email would you?
I would love to know what tricks she has been hiding up her sleave.
What if she forgot to log off and you went by to pick up the skids....she is in the other room....would you look? Would it make you a bad person? Then what would you do with it?

Just curious to see how far we would go when we already know how far THEY would go!

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Most Evil's picture

("SEVERE" dyslexia) so I am guessing she would not write either? So I would look except that there probably is nothing there! LOL

ps. I do not mean to insult anyone who does suffer from this, I just don't believe her, long story if you want to know, but you get the drift!

"It's funny how dogs and cats know the inside of folks better than other folks do, isn't it?"
- Eleanor H. Porter (1868 - 1920), 'Pollyanna', 1912

Abigail's picture

LOL! This BM is dyslexic too. Maybe that is why she is so hateful? My BD is dyslexic and I know how she struggled with her self esteem. BM probably doesn't know how to use e-mail. But if she did, I wouldn't want to read it.

I already feel like I spend way to much time obsessing about her and her antics. I hope to get to the point one day where I don't think about her or care.

"Evil Stepmothers aren't born, it comes with the territory"

startingover2010's picture

i would read it, and then forward it all to my email to re-read it carefully.

EsandEm's picture

But I know it's against my better judgment...That's one more thing I needn't obsess about!

The good me (10%): Oh no...I'll just wonder.

The evil me (90%): HELL YA. And Ima f**k sum s**t up!

I laugh at myself.

bahamamama16's picture

I would want to but...i would probably get caught or her big mouth would tell the skid and then she would think more bad things about me then she already does and she would tell my biokid too...

melis070179's picture

But not if she was just in the other room...only if I couldn't get caught LOL

"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"

belleboudeuse's picture

Not only did I post a comment to the wrong blog, I double-posted it! Sorry!

BB

Catlover's picture

I could easily go on and search for her posts..... and I did for about the first 6 months. At first it was great fun to keep tabs on her. She was dumb enough to go on there and talk about all sorts of stuff...her drunken binges, her plots against DH and I,etc. After a while, though, I have to admit that it became like an addiction to know what she was posting. I came to realize that by following her blog, I was just allowing more drama into my life and I had to let it go. I no longer go on there anymore, though it is tempting. I just figure that I get enough chaos from her already!

"Just because I'm paranoid doesn't mean people aren't out to get me"

imagr8tma's picture

She is so ignorant to try and taint everyone's judgement of DH and me - she tells everyone in front of SD. She also tells her mom her plans in front of SD. SO SD tells us when she comes to VA for her visits.

I think that BM talks so much about us and so dang frequently to anyone who will listen that SD now thinks that it is okay to tell us that stuff.

She has told us things that I am sure if BM had half a brain she would not say around her 6 year old daughter.

It confuses SD so she asks us to explain things to her - which is completely wrong - why would you put your kid in the middle.

Rags's picture

I can find out anything I want or need to know about him, his entire family and anyone he knows either online or by calling variouse state regulatory or law enforcement agencies. If I need to know more than that, a PI will find it for me if I need it.

Keeping the moral and character high ground is much more valuable than anything you would find by coping a peak of BM/BD's e-mail account while in their home.

Now, if they left it open and you could view it from your home, that would be a different story.

Hmmmmmmmm? I think I see a new I-Phone app. Hack the BM/BD e-mail account.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

stepmasochist's picture

I don't think I would find any useful information there. I don't think she uses email that much. She doesn't have the internet at home and I doubt she can use it much at her work at a nursing home. She has a myspace page that I've checked out and she doesn't have many friends. A couple of years ago she had pictures on there that looked like a big druggie party of her and about 5 friends. No drugs in the pictures just a bunch of glassy-eyed losers hanging out.

I know if she read my email, she wouldn't glean anything useful to her from it.