It was on FB. It was clearly part of a chain. However, I have no children. I do engage with my SSs. I have been a good influence on DH in regards to the boys. I am polite to both BM and GBM when I see them.

However, again, I have no children. And we aren't friends. And she has been a real something to my DH (and even BM and the boys) in the past.

So...why? Y'all, I may be paranoid, but between BM changing her name back to Mrs. Fake DH, her getting divorced but her XH still living with her, BM job hopping but already missing a week of work for being sick, and BM being super nice to DH, I'm starting to feel a little suffocated. A little...outsider-imposed "sister wife-y".

So I'm waiting to see if the buttering-up is for money, sympathy, or nothing at all. I'd love to think that this is just a sweet gesture, but that ain't happening. It takes effort, even minimal, to include me, and I'm perfectly fine not being included. Do they think they'll turn me against DH? Get me to open my pocket book? I may have been raised to be polite, but Momma didn't raise no fool.

Guesses on what's going on? The crazier, the more accurate it probably is.