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BM1 is such a dipshit sometimes

KiFire's picture

So she calls FDH last night to tell him that she took SD7 to the ER after school because SD couldn't breathe and was sick to her stomach. The diagnosis was that SD7 has strep throat. According to BM the Dr says SD has had strep for awhile... so thank god on that, because she tried to blame FDH every time SD comes down with something. Even if we haven't seen her in days.

Then this morning BM's BF is asking to borrow an AC because "SD7 came home from her dads with sun poisoning."

So now she has sun poisoning too.. and it's from our house. Nevermind the fact that it was RAINING all weekend so we didn't go outside. She definitly got sun poisoning and we did it.

I'm not upset I just.. wtf? why? who gains anything from this?

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KiFire's picture

SD7 never goes without treatment thank god, but she also get's lots of special attention for things that aren't there, strep throat wasn't something BM1 could be a MOTY about - sun poisoning is! BM loves it, and drinks up all the attention she can get when SD7 is sick.

Starla's picture

Next the BM will be making her own child sick, get the treatment, and its all for attention..Isn't there a name for people who do that? Hope it will never go that far. The sun poisoning thing..wow :jawdrop:

KiFire's picture

no,I don't think she'll ever hurt SD. She got a little out of control with the ER visits in 2011, since she's on medicaid (glasses are now a disability) the state flagged it. She was given a talking to by the Pedi and DCFS about the proper way to use an ER. Now SD has more Drs than we can keep track of. Mom always has a new complaint. So far the most consistent problem is the ever present swelling knees when poor SD walks too much. So BM1 pushes SD7 around in a stroller when they go shopping. However, we have never seen her knees swell while she is running around with the other kids, her school has never seen any swelling during p.e. or recess, the THREE specialists for joints have never seen this swelling despite sending SD for walks, and the physical therapist that Sd saw for 6mos "just in case" never saw the swelling.. despite being there to work SD's legs.

There are other things she complains about that nobody see's and she's kept SD out of so much school that SD is repeating 1st grade next year. Everyone just wants FDH to be happy that BM cares so much about SD's health.

FirstLady's picture

We can ask the BM in my situation what it's called. I'm sure she knows. If she's ignored for too long SS will end up in the ER, then SO HAS to respond to her or else he feels bad. It's all a game.

misSTEP's picture

Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy

We had the misfortune of having a BM like that.

KiFire's picture

LOL! oh sorry, no, he didn't ask us for an AC. He asked on FB, FSIL is on their friends list and called us concerned that all of the kids were sick and that they were the only ones begging for shit on FB.

But yes, I think you might be onto something. a free AC. She is due in like 3wks with his kid and it's pretty warm this week.