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Sick of the bitching. It's NICE time.

KeepsGettingBetter's picture

Unfortunately I don’t have the time to log onto ST everyday and blog or post replies to our Step Talkers post, but in saying that I do try and at least hop onto the website at every opportunity I get and at least have a quick read to see how all my fellow step talkers/friends are doing but I may not necessarily log on.

ST is a place where I love to come catch up on the latest and vent away my frustrations, but lately every time I seem to visit this site there is some drama going on between us. I’ve noticed people being rude, name calling and ganging up on other ST members.
I really really do hope that ST doesn’t turn into a constant bitch fight between members as I love this site and don’t want to feel that I may be judged, called names or rude to, just for having an opinion that another member may not agree with.
I love all of you and respect anything that anyone of you has to say weather I like it or not.

With all the bad vibes/comments I have read over the recent weeks I would like to say some NICE things about some of the members on this site that I have grown to respect and love as my own family.

I apologise in advance if I haven’t or forgotten to mentioned you as I don’t want this blog to be too long.

Betwitched – My rock, my knight in shinning armor. You have picked me up when I have felt down, you have made me laugh when I never thought I could even crack a smile. You are a beautiful person and your advice and prayers will always be held dear to my heart.

Melis – Even though you may not realise but 1 of your replies to my post helped me put together a list of chores for my SS13 to do at home. You also helped me see that going to court at that particular time wasn’t our best option. You speak your mind and tell it like you see it (just like me), which is something I love and appreciate.

Lil-Teapot – You have showed me the hurt that my skids may have been feeling during a difficult time and that I need to also consider what they are going through. You have a heart of gold and I would never knock back any advice you have or will give me.

Crayon – You’re a riot. I just can’t help but laugh everytime I see your name. Your descriptions, the way your write your blogs, I just love it. Your character livens up this place even when you having a bad day you still know how to make us laugh. (Daddykins and grilhippo, these names, how can you not laugh :lol:).

I would love to add a hell of a lot more as you are ALL very dear to me, but I thought that this may be a good way for us all to see how much we appreciate one another rather than the bitching that’s been going on here lately.

So tell me ladies and gents, what nice things can we say about each other?

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bewitched's picture

"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere

I have so missed you! We must be off schedule, or you're just not on much.

And I know I've met alot of awesome men and women on this site. The things we have in common brought us together, and allow us to lay it all out like we can't do anywhere else. I will say that one particular unnamed party (no longer on here) stirred things up, but it really didn't take too long to figure out what she was up to...

Hope you've all recovered from the fire...remember, when my Mom's hip heals up, we're packin' up and comin' to stay!

But I don't think I can drive all the way to Australia! (yes, folks, that was intentionally stupid. I've lost it but not that bad).

KeepsGettingBetter's picture

Wasn't I going to fly over to pick you and your parents up? :wink:, so anyone else that wants to jump on board you are more than welcome.

I have been reading your posts but just havn't had the time to log in as often. I see SD graduation is going to be one big bash, alchool and all, I'm sure I don't even need to comment on your DHs and BM stupidity about all of it.

We have recovered from the fires although still alot of maintenance going on in the area. On top of all of what been going on our beautiful jack russell was hit by a truck and died a couple of weeks ago. Skids took it hard. He was a member of our family and will surely be missed :(.

Catlover's picture

This board is made up of a variety of people who have different backgrounds/religious and political beliefs etc. It is important to keep focused on the purpose of this board....which is to support one another! We all don't have to agree.....but we can still show our support.

"Just because I'm paranoid doesn't mean people aren't out to get me"

melis070179's picture

I agree 100%...and I'm glad you still get on here every opportunity you can. This site seems to go through "cycles" of fighting, and this one seems to be longer than usual! Someone has just deleted their account because of it, but hopefully no more follow suit. There are a lot of different opinions, stories, lives, etc on here and clashing is inevitable. I try to be honest and sometimes its hard to say things nicely if you strongly disagree, I guess. I don't agree with name calling or trying to run someone off just because of difference of opinion though. I don't think there are anymore members (hopefully) that just lash out at everyone so hopefully this "cycle" will die down soon!

"You never realize how short a month is until you pay child support"