Hi All,

How is everyone doing in this crazy place called step parenting. Over the last few months I have sent 2nd wives of my friends to this site hoping that this place will help them.

I have had a few comments mentioned to me by 2 of the women that Dani’s name still occasionally gets mentioned on ST. Well I got on line to have a look and noticed that I also received a couple of PM messages. One was regarding a catfight between members and Dani’s name was mentioned. All I would like to say to this is firstly GROW UP PEOPLE.
I’m glad in a way that Dani story is something you guys all remember as I wouldn’t want to hear her story happen to another step mother.
To the person who Pmed me, thank you. I know that you thought Dani name was mentioned in a negative way but those posts must have been deleted before I was able to see them, as I didn’t really see anything negative about Dani.

I honestly don’t mind how often Dani story is told as long as it’s for the good of the site and in reference to helping someone else going through a very difficult time.

Another PM that had me extremely worried was about LastChance. From what I understand her husband committed suicide.
LastChance, if you read this please PM me if you need to talk. I know all to well the tears that don’t stop, the sadness that feels like it will never ease, the anger you feel cause of all your unanswered questions, and the resentment of everyone in your life around you that made your husbands life difficult. I understand and even though no matter what anyone says it will still hurt so bad like someone is ripping out your heart, I hope you find comfort in knowing that I am with you and feeling the exact same feelings.