So again SD12 is causing drama in the household due to her being BM’s BFF again. SO BM’s ex-fiancé is saying crap about her at BM’s “friend’s house”. This is sooo high school that I couldn’t stand to even hear the drama!

SD12 gets a phone call from BM while SD s with us. BM is crying to a 12 year old about how Ex-fiancé is saying cruel things about her and how he is going to call ALL her Baby daddy’s to have them get custody away from her!!! BM has 2 baby daddies, My dh (2 Girls)and her 2nd ex-husband (1 boy). SD12 tells my DH about how BM was crying and that Ex-Fiancé would be contacting him. DH says well, I just won’t take the call. We find out after further questioning that SD went into another room, called BM and told her what DH said!

On top of that, SD originally said that BM told her to tell DH the conversation but after getting more info – we found out that SD VOLUNTEERED to run to DH and back to BM. Once we busted her on the lie, her reaction was TO SMILE ABOUT BEING FOUND TO BE LYING! UGH! I wanted to smack that smile off that face! I had to walk away because I can NOT stand liars.

We had a long conversation about kids staying out of Adult situations with her. I am sure she will repeat this behavior since she is not BM’s favorite child and is trying so hard to win her approval.
First, I can’t trust this kid at all. She has already shown her LACK of loyalty to DH. DH just took both Sds out for a while ~ yeeah, let’s reward THAT behavior ~. And I will have to make dinner later for this little lying snake, pretending to enjoy my meal with this snake.

Am I over-reacting? Any input on how to handle this ?