Does anyone have experience with international stepparent adoptions? My DH wants to let BM's husband adopt SS but it seems complicated since multiple countries are involved (we're in the US and SS was born here and there's CS still being paid through the US family court system, BM is in Europe and wants to move to a different EU country). His attorney said he would look into it.

DH hasn't seen or talked to his son since the incident last summer and there's no visitation schedule. It would make everyone's lives easier if BM's husband adopted him, since BM has to keep faxing forms for DH to sign regarding SS in a language he has no idea what it says.

I wondered what we're getting ourselves into here.