I reported BM to CPS last night.....

If you've been keeping up with my drama you'll know that BM is married to a rapist (of a minor) and he is living in the house (out on bail) while his trial is going on. SD is currently staying with us for her 6 week summer visitation. BM calls us to say that SD has a softball party tonight and she wants her to go. Well....she had already told SD that this party was coming up and SD was super excited. Just another way for us to look like the bad guys if we don't let her go. We are leery of letting her go because we live in a different state, so if she goes she will be staying the night with her mom....and the rapist.

BM is claiming up and down that he doesn't live there and that it's none of our business what she does while the kids are gone. In her psycho mind this is just proof that my DH still cares about what she's doing and he's jealous. The Judge, and our lawyer says that legally we can't keep SD from her because she has full custody and there is no restraining order in place to keep her DH from the kids. They also tell us that since he has not yet been convicted of a crime he can be there. WTF? SOOO in other words my SD has to get raped in order for you to take her out of the house where a man that was charged with raping a minor lives? This is the same judge that listened to testimony and determined that there was enough evidence to charge him with 3 additional felony's all sexually related and with a minor. What since does this make?

I called CPS to make a report last night since we recently found out that BM married the rapist. His court cases have finally started and it looks like he will be convicted soon. We also recently found that he was still living in the home. BM told us that she made him move out. Our witnesses say that he moved back in a month after he was charged with this crime. After hearing my story (and I didn't even get into EVERYTHING that BM has done) CPS was shocked and said I can't believe the father doesn't have custody of these children! You know what I can't believe? How effed up our justice system is to pull bio kids of the rapist out of the home immediately and leave 2 kids that aren't related to him in the home.

Hopefully they will find something and be able to help us get our kids out of this mess! I'm expecting a text or phone call once BM is contacted by CPS....this will be fun.