I wish you would get medication for that Bi-Polar that you were diagnosed with ten years ago but have chosen to ignore. If you're going to continue to lie to DH on such a regular basis, you probably shouldn't do so via text since it's laughable but also quite pathetic when you contradict yourself within hours. It really would be fabulous if you had any intention of being the great mother you claim to hope to be one day but in the meantime, perhaps you could just try not to cause your daughter anymore emotional damage. I don't really care if you want to sleep with half of the Green Bay Packers, but maybe you could stop fighting with us to have SD at your house only to bring home douche bag after douche bag because eventually something bad will happen to one of your children. If you're going to go to the psychiatrist appointment for SD, don't lie about your family history, or personal history because it's only hurting SD and keeping the doctor's from making an accurate diagnosis.
The term harassment isn't applicable when you say something like I've signed SD up for tutoring and despite four requests, you still haven't been able to even come up with a name, much less any information about this so called program. Pulling SD out of summer school because you don't like the one day a week that we had to change placement for the four lousy weeks she'd need to complete her schooling makes you selfish, a bad mother and a bad person. Unnecessarily putting your daughter in daycare for 45+ hours per week and then pawning her off on anyone who will take her when she's not at daycare makes you a bad mother. Not signing her up for school yourself when you had FIVE MONTHS to do so DOES make you a bad mother and I'm sorry that it hurts your feelings when DH points these things out.
Also if you're going to keep your daughter from attending school and going to gymnastics, don't lie to her and tell her that you aren't. Own up to it, especially if you think you're right for doing so! Stop insisting that we revert back to the court order that only lets SD come over once per week every time you get your feelings hurt and get over your jealousy! I'm not running all over hell and creation trying to take on the responsibility of your daughter because I want to, I'm doing it because YOU'RE NOT! Try LISTENING to your kid for a change and stop putting her in the middle of your delusions and badmouthing DH because you swear you had an eye opening conversation with DH when the total phone call lasted 45 seconds! Don't complain that you don't get enough time with your daughter when you leave her with us or your mother or your friend or your first ex husbands mother every chance you get.
Maybe, just maybe if you put a fraction of the effort into being a mother that you put into being a cunt, I wouldn't be writing this, your daughter who's nearly seven could read, DH wouldn't be on the verge of losing his job because he's got to go file court paperwork in hopes that a judge will have a shred of common sense and keep you from turning your daughter into a person just like you. SD worked in her workbook with me today, she put on a pretty dress and then we took the bus to go get her haircut, we ate lunch and had a great day. It cost less than $20.00 and SD left here smiling. I hate knowing that she has to go home with you now where you'll ignore her and play on your phone or browse a dating app. I hate that instead of having some fun, much needed one on one time tomorrow, she'll spend her day in an overcrowded daycare center with 18 kids to every teacher, i.e. an 18 year old idiot who got what she considers a good paying babysitting job.
Over the last two weeks our dog died, our car blew up, DH is one mistake away from losing his job, I can't even get to the grocery store, SS14 missed his therapy appointment because I couldn't find connecting buses. The last thing we need is to deal with any more of your insanity. Even your ex boyfriend has contacted us telling us how badly we need to get SD out of your house. I wish that it would matter to you that you're ruining our lives, along with your daughters, I wish you cared that we're literally one court ruling away from throwing in the towel and hoping in a few years that SD can read the apology letter that will break our hearts to write. But you're a cunt and none of this will matter, I just needed to vent before I lose my shit completely.