WHY GOD WHY LOL!!
So we received a call from the place where SS is locked up. They have been blowing up my phone because DH will not talk to them. This pisses me off because he acts like a great father in front of them but bitches about having to do it to me. They have been trying for the last three months to get DH and I in for a family session and due to work it has not been scheduled. Plus, may I add I really don't feel the need to sit there while SS and DH act like life is great while I am about ready to explode on both of them. DH acts like he is the best son in the world which makes me want to scream "He is a child molester". They found a way to trick me into the family session by saying we both need to come in for a meeting about where SS will live when he gets released and why. Really? Are they serious? I swear they just want to make me feel like shit because I am the one that said oh no he will never live with me again. I am really frustrated because I am tired of these people trying to make me feel like shit. It is so hard to stand me ground when the people in my life say the same thing over and over "he's just a kid".
So we have a family session around 11 am they the other meeting after. I feel so lone I wish one of you were close enough to have tea or coffee. One thing I don't understand ....Before I got married the long term relationships I had all had kids that loved me and I had great relationships with those kids but DH's kids hate me.
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Hope that DH will not try to
Hope that DH will not try to trick you into taking the skid back.
Would really like to join you for a cup of (name your poison). Hope it all turns out for the best!
Tog I am not Whining I am
Tog I am not Whining I am venting there is a big difference. If you don't like what I am saying please just don't read or respond. It is that easy. Writing these blogs and getting it out is therapeutic for me even if it is to strangers.
In your opinion where should
In your opinion where should SS go?
I completely understand and would never allow him in my home. With that being said, you have to understand that may mean that you and DH can no longer live together. Ultimately, SS will have to leave the facility and it's his parents responsibility to make sure he has a place to live and to make sure he continues to receive treatment.
If the SS molested the
If the SS molested the younger child, why would anybody think it's a good idea for the SS to return to that house. Do these facilities and CPS actually allow that to happen. How long ago has it been since it happened?
You can't allow SS to be around the younger child again. There is no decision to make here. Either your DH has to take SS to another place or you have to leave with your son. It's really quite simple. You feel uneasy about it because you care about your DH and don't want to leave him but you have to protect your child.
Thanks tommar. That makes a
Thanks tommar. That makes a lot more sense. I didn't have time to go back and real all the old posts and couldn't remember that part.
I think the OP just has to decide whether she can ever be around the SS again. It seems like the answer is no so she will need to make plans as you said and move on.
I hope that SS and the younger child get the help they need.
that is what I am thinking
that is what I am thinking too