Does anyone else get blamed for this?
It is my general opinion that DH and BM are fairly crappy parents. Yes, they were young when they had SS7 but the kid is going to be 8 soon and any normal person would have gotten a clue by now, I would think.
SS7 has declared on many occasions that he wants to kill himself, or nobody likes him, or he's stupid. He's anything but stupid. He has been to counseling, had ADHD testing, autism testing, and now more counseling. He doesn't have anything wrong with him as far as ADHD (he's borderline for ADD) and autism.
So I, being a proactive person and a realist, ask a lot of questions. Questions that DH and BM don't think of. Half the time DH is appreciative and the other half the time he thinks I'm meddling and don't know a damn thing about raising kids. Hello? Neither one of my sons has said that they want to kill themselves!
Does anyone out there deal with getting blamed for "meddling" when they are just trying to help? Have you withdrawn your help completely then? I guess I'm tired of helping DH try to be a better parent and then getting shit on when he doesn't like what he hears.