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What #BM are you (or DW if there is not kids)

Glassslipper's picture

Just wondering, I'm not one to judge till the other shoe is on my foot...
But what BM/DW or DH if your a step dad on here are you?
AND
When you were dating if someone was married, or had kids with 3, 4, 5 people...and you would be wife #3 or #4, did you think about that situation before you decided you were so in love it was worth it?

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Sunflower1's picture

Me four Wink

Sports Fan's picture

I am wife #2. DH and I don't have any kids together (bit too old for that).

I am also a BM but my exH isn't currently seeing anyone.

justanothergurlNJ's picture

I will be his 1st wife he wasn't dumb enough to marry the Gold Digga just stupid enough to knock her up. So while we will never have kids together she will forever be just the baby momma and I will always amd forever be the WIFE

Totalybogus's picture

I am W2. We have no children together and never will. He is H3. However, my 2nd X and I did not have children together either. My children are from my 1st marriage and are grown and have children of their own now.

SMLIFESUCKS's picture

I am Wife #2 and BM #2 for DH. I am also a BM# 1 for my Exh, he does have a bm#2.

DH married BM and had 2 kids with her. I am not sure why but I think maybe they mistook loving to argue with each other as passion. That's my take anyways.

I dont think I thought hard enough. I can tell you if he would have had kids with more than one woman, I would have broken through the door running. It is hard enough to have 1 BM to deal with, I know I couldn't have dealt with 2.

I dont know that it truly means that person is bad or wrong, just not clearly learning from their mistakes maybe. Idk.

We are ok right now but when BM ramps it up, I want to split but having our DD14mo keeps me grounded there for now. Blum 3

Mom2's picture

DH is my 1st.
I am wife number 1. Oh you mean how many times he was married. I am his 3rd wife, but BM #5.

just_tired's picture

I am wife #2, we have no common kiddos & we never will have kiddos (I have been fixed for 2 yrs now). I have DS10 with ExH and ExH is engaged.
DH has 3 kids with Bat Shit Crazy BM.

B22S22's picture

I am W3. DH has 2 kids (almost adults) with BM1/W1. He had a very short marriage to W2, whom BM1/W1 apparently scared off about 2 months later.

I have 2 kids, DH and I were 41 when we got married, so no kids together.

BSgoinon's picture

I am his second wife, but he was only married to BM for 4 months. SO.... I'm not even sure if that counts LOL. We have no kids together, after 10 years. I would do it all over again if given the chance.

zerostepdrama's picture

Wife #2

Fiance #3 (DH obviously never married that woman)

DH and I have no kids together.

Currently the only BM when it comes to my Ex.

mommy0104's picture

I am wife #2, DH has 2 daughters with his first wife. I have 1 son from a previous relationship (thank god I never married that poor excuse for human life) and DH and I have a son in common. As for my ex(the human waste of space), I don't know what number baby momma I am since the fool won't quit breeding Wink

SMto3's picture

Fiance #2, Soon to be BM#3 (pretty bad, I hate how it sounds). I'm having my first child and his first daughter which makes me feel a centimeter better as i can share a "first" with him, I guess.

hangingbyathread6's picture

I am wife #2 to my DH. He has two sons from his first marriage of six years. He was her 2nd husband.

DH is my 2nd husband. I have 3 children (two girls, 1 boy) from my first marriage of just shy of 14 years.

We have primary custody of all five children...but we have psycho BM and NPD douchebag BF.

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