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UPDATE...Order of protection on FDH's dad

FTMandSM's picture

Well, after work myself and FDH went to the Sherriff's office to talk to a Deputy. After waiting for over an hour, I was told that I can't file for on order of protection because the text message didn't actually say he was going to kill me. And that what FDH's dad sent was to "vague". So we had the Deputy call his dad. At least they know that some type of action was taken place and the incident was documented. The deputy was actually really rude, but it's been documented. I wonder if it's because we are Mormon Shellfish....lol

FDH suspects that there will be retaliation. I'm not really sure what they would come back with. They called CPS on BM and called BM's mom's job and told them she was smoking pot on the job. I have already informed my boss what has been going on. So we will see what happens.

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DaizyDuke's picture

Geesh, Mormon Shellfish with midget mental capacities are such trouble makers!!

Was the deputy really rude to you guys or to FIL??

AllySkoo's picture

Her FIL sent a nasty text with a lot of "autocorrect" errors. He meant to call them selfish morons and called them shellfish Mormons instead. Wink

FTMandSM's picture

My Triple M (mini mental midget) is safe! FDH stays home while I'm at work and then we switch.

AllySkoo's picture

Totally agree, cut that toxic trash out of your life (and the kids') for good. Ain't nobody got time for that....

FTMandSM's picture

Oh yeah, FDH already let BM know. She said she wouldn't give them time anyway and she would be more inclined to give ME time, which is saying a lot

Totalybogus's picture

Maybe you can't get an order but you can trespass him. That will keep him off your property.

FTMandSM's picture

The face he made was priceless. But it made me so mad because not I can't get the order of protection I wanted because FIL didn't state that he wanted to kill us, just said that the next time he saw us we would be dead and the fact he doesn't proof his messages and texts like an idiot.

AllySkoo's picture

And now I have a song running through my head - "I am the very model of a Mormon Mental Midget Squad". Wink

hismineandours's picture

I went back and read your last blog. Your fil's text was seriously hilarious. It did however, remind me of my own inlaws. My fil has said very similar things- well not the shellfish or Mormon thing but that Im only out for myself, blah, blah. the last thing my mil said to my dh is that she is going to beat my ass next time she saw me. That was like 2 years ago and she's seen me a number of times and my ass has yet to receive that beating. Fil was much more subtle with his threats- texting me things like 'I'm sure Youll be seeing me". I'm not even sure if this was a threat as his messages were also quite difficult to read and understand. The thing is I didn't care about anything he said or my mil said. In fact I thought THEY were hilarious. I even poked fun at my fil in a return message poking fun at all his errors. I also told him what I thought about him since he was seeking me out. I didn't hold back. He has never bothere me again. No protective order needed. If he does try to contact me again? I will once again tell him exactly what I think. Oh, I'm sure I could be the bigger person and I do think there is value in this at times, BUT I also think there is value in sticking up for yourself. At the point I confronted fil-i hadn't talked to him in a year and dh hadn't for 9 months. I had long given up on the idea that they would have any interest in our kids or that they would be appropriate role models.

Now my dh does have a no contact against his sister, but he got that when she stole his identity and charged up cc's. Part of her sentence was the no contact order.

Bottom line, is don't let these whacks get to you. That will be easier for you than your dh since he is related to the whack job.