Why why why
Why do friends of my DH bring up SS18 in polite conversation? Dh, baby and I are out as a family. We run into dh’s friends. These people KNOW ss18 is hateful towards us, that he is a narcissist in training. At his mention, I want to throw back my head and say, “LITERALLY you could mention ANYTHING else under the sun and yet you choose to bring up something so painful and traumatic for us. Why why why why?”
Dh says these people are just trying to connect with him. He is right.
But dammit, I want to move VERY FAR away from this community. I want a FRESH start. I worry at times that ss18 will never leave this community and I will have to have these interactions for decades to come.
NO THANK YOU TO THAT