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How can BM be such a b1tch?!?

Flying.Purple.Step.Monster's picture

How come BM gets to get away with being such a b!tch? I think I blogged
once before about how Thanksgiving falls between my boyfriend’s two regular
weekends. So that means he gets them 3 weekends in a row. She wanted that
third weekend back. He put his foot down and said no. Does she forget
that she gets them all the rest of the time?? She doesn’t have the
faintest idea what it’s like for him to only get every other weekend.

Well before she asked for this weekend back she had asked us if we would
take the kids early on Wednesday before Thanksgiving so she could leave to
get to her parent’s house early. We said sure, since it would allow us to
also get out of town early as well. The day after BF refused to let her
have his weekend he got an email that said ‘as per the visitation schedule,
you can pick up the kids at 6pm on Wednesday. Having them early was to
help her out!

Fast forward to this past weekend… she calls at 10am on Sunday morning and
asks if we would keep the kids until 7pm that night instead of 6. We said
we would. When we dropped them back off that night BF asked if he could
have them early on Wednesday. She then said yes. Now yesterday he gets
another email from her that says ‘you can’t have the kids until 6pm.’ Our
thought is that she talked to her mother who told her not to let him have
them early.

I don’t get how a woman can get off being such a b!tch!

Comments

mystiery's picture

Since she is being like that your BF should stop agreeing to keep them extra and stuff to help her out. I know it would suck for him since he would get the extra time but at the same time maybe it might click in her brain to stop being a douche.

buttercup123's picture

Mystiery-we tried that and she just used it against us, saying we only wanted skids when convenient for us....sooo we lost time with them and it was used against us. I don't recommend it. besides, BM's don't act rationally. If you think she will zig, she will zag.

TheRealMom's picture

My hubby and I went through this with our daughters BM. She was very twisted and mean spirited at the time. It's all about trying to get some kind of power. For what ever reason, she is resentful of her ex, you or just that her kids have a new set of parents/guardians. At some point she needs to learn that playing these games are only going to hurt the kids in the long run.

I hate mind games!

imagr8tma's picture

Well, although she is acting stupid about the pick up time... It also makes her late for getting to her parents home as well. So it hurts her plans as well.

You may be surprised with realizing that on tomorrow and calling you all last minute to tell you to come and pick up earlier than 6.

********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************