Hating the fact that ss is in my life
Every time DH and I had any arguement it is always related to this kid. I can't mention this kid, and I also can't not mentioning him because SS is with us 100% of the time. SS stresses DH out, actually, as stresses everyone in this house out with his selfishness.
The most recent argument had been DH wants to take ss to visit my home country when I really don't want to. Even if I know SS making everything about him is not really intentional (part of being on the spectrum), it doesn't change the fact he will still make everything about him. I haven't seen my parents for 4 years, and I really don't want this shit kid to make my trip back home about him. Not to mention the cost to travel that far.
We've been skipping vacations because traveling with ss is always a pain for me. I know DH doesn't like it. I don't think this is right either, but I can't get over SS' selfish ass and basically ruining every trip we've had so far.
this is a person who doesn't appreciate, doesn't give anyone anything but keeps taking. I just really wish I've never known him.