What do you need to think about? (a slightly OT vent)
So, after my blog yesterday, I was motivated to call around for marriage counselors, which SO already agreed we should go. In fact, I even had a referral to someone earlier this year, but she had an emergency and couldn't take us.
So I called a bunch of people, spoke with the ones who got back with me, told him about the conversations and their philosophies, offered to share the phone number so he could call them if he had any additional questions or concerns....
And all he says is could he please have a little time to think about it...think about what?
I guarantee you, all that's going to happen is he's going to take five days, never call anyone or do any research, and go with the one I recommended.
Although if we wait another five days to make an appointment, we won't get in till the end of April
DH just does this crap all the time. Think about things he's already told me he's decided on. I mean, I can understand if he's never agreed to go to a counselor or if he wants the time to ask around or do research on these people...but he doesn't and won't. It's like he just needs a delay before making a decision....even a decision he already know he's going to make. It's bizarre.