BM obviously planning on dying when SKs turn 18....

So, DH has occassionally tried talking to BM about child support stopping and what she's going to do in three years when it does. She doesnt want to hear it and flips out on him whenever he brings it up.

She didn't work for the entirety of DH's marriage, and in the six plus years they've been divorced, she's gotten herself a job making minimum wage.

We would definitely support BM in ANY plans she tried to make to get a real career, and go back to school, but no.....the thing is,she's not frugal at all, so when child support stops, wtf is her plan? She can't possibly live on her minimum wage job.

I seriously think her plan is probably to lose 100 pounds and find a new man to live off of, but with her age and looks, I don't know if that's possible. Still, there's a sucker born every minute....

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Our BM has never lived on her

Our BM has never lived on her own since her and my husband split up. She is either with a man or moves back in with her mother.

Our BM was complaining about

Our BM was complaining about how she'll never find her soulmate, & that she guesses it'll just be her & the kids forever.

When DH reminded her that the kids will grow up & move out & live their own lives with their own families, she started crying & said, "Well then I guess it'll just be me & their pets".

I think she'll opt for death over a job when CS ends, as she just ordered her live-in to pick up a second job. According to SS she's in the process of filing for disability because she has a goiter.

Tell her not to give up. Our

Tell her not to give up. Our BM has found several soulmates over the years.

Bwa ha ha!,,

LOL! She's named DH the

LOL! She's named DH the "Love of her life". I keep praying another one will come along.

Have her check Craigslist.

Have her check Craigslist. That's where our BM found her current husband. Or since you are looking for a car, perhaps you could be a gem and also find your BM a man. Just a thought. Is she picky as to whether they can spell or not?

LOL! Actually, I got a

LOL! Actually, I got a message on my fake FB page I'd friended BM on from her again-live-in awhile back where she'd thrown him out because he couldn't afford to pay the household bills & keep all 4 cell phones turned on.

He was soliciting for "a good man to take care of her & her kids".

Given the context of the messages he sent, no...she's not picky about spelling. He just needs to be able to carry her & the kids.

Apparently he's being a gem enough for both of us. I'd hate to step on toes & interrupt his search for her soulmate.

BM is literally one of those

BM is literally one of those people who expect someone to take care of her, and get very upset when asked to stand on her own two feet.

I think she almost had a breakdown when she realized she needed to get a job or else she wouldn't have medical insurance...and when you're 100 pounds overweight, you have a lot of medical problems.

I know I'm being mean, but it can't hurt her since she's not reading it. }:)