So DH has been doing a lot of side jobs and i thought it would be for the golf cart we've been talking about getting. this morning he says that SS15 asked him if he would pay for half of a laptop if DH would pay for the other half. I said OH YEA...that sounds nice. in my head i'm thinking how stupid DH is because this kid has never paid for HALF of anything he says he will, it's always well i have this and i'll pay you back the rest later. so i reminded Dh that if this is his christmas gift that's one thing, but if its above and beyond he needs to put the same $$ toward ss17's college fund. so DH says well than i'll just give both my kids $300 for christmas. let me remind you we haven't gone grocery shopping in probably a month. but somehow he has $600 laying aroudn to give his kids. i'm pissed. it'd be nice if he could spread the wealth around the house once in a while instead of on those little greedy bastards. grrrrrr
so i asked him - so what are you getting me for christmas....he smiles and says i got a tv and surround in the garage - this was for him and he's trying to pawn it off on to him getting it for me - this is retarded and i'm pissed.
on the other hand i can understand that DH is the one making the money and he should do with it as he pleases...i'm just pissed that his first thought isn't to help with household stuff but rather "the boys"