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bm's a dumb @*%&#!!!

dakotamom's picture

so BM sends a message to DH telling him to have Dakota back off of ss18 and his college financing. she is taking him to a BANK to get a loan and she will forward all information to answer my questions. I"m confusing him by talking to him about stuff.
there's more but that's the gist.
she's so dumb. i'm talking to him because it needs to be done and she's missing the whole point!!!

note to self - Disengage Dakota, just disengage.....life was easier when you didnt care.....

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liks's picture

Grab the stupid BM around the neck and shake her violently until her head falls off!

Then hang her upside down and watch her bleed to death!

hmmm....that should do it!

dakotamom's picture

When she pulls shit like this DH will comment how he'd be out of jail by now if he'd have just killed her. everyone would have an easier life!!!!

liks's picture

yeap....my DH says the same thing....makes me laugh...he is still considering getting the gun out and shooting the bitch from here to kingdom come....well im coming too and I wanna use the machine gun....!!

she is such a sloppy slag!

dakotamom's picture

i told DH if he was goign to do that i would have appreciated if he would have followed through BEFORE i met him. I like him around and dont want to have to deal with his kids alone!!!

dakotamom's picture

i just dont get it....my thought that dawned on me after this is she can file bankruptcy on these bank loans and be cleared of debt - you cant do that with student loans....could this really be her thinking????

dakotamom's picture

skid and i were set to go to the financial aid office to have him get loans and not have to worry about repayment until 6 months after college is over!!!! then suddenly BM decides to step up and do it her way. teh skid is completely lazy and is lettign her do whatever she wnats because that means that he wont have any responsibility for anything and can stay at his computer games!!!

dakotamom's picture

no, really. this kid is a moron when it comes to anything that should be common sense. he has no idea how to balance a checkbook. he tried and within the first two paychecks had taken out more than was there becasue he didnt know about it.
Mommy coddles him, DH is usually "unavailable" in his garage and that means going outside so ss18 wont do it.

Still Have Hope's picture

What is it with BM's and college loans? DH and I have tried to explain to SD that she can get a decent education without mortgaging her entire future by attending a state U (15 minutes from her mom's house), doing work study and living at home for the first 2 years. We were told to stay out of it because we were stressing her out.
BM has talked her into a private liberal arts college 4 hours away with $50,000 a year tuition. A $200,000 debt for a 4 year liberal arts degree means she will be paying back student loans until she reaches social security age. When we are asked to contribute (and we will be asked) we plan to give the $2000 it would take for her to go to the local U with a work study grant while living at home.
I guess BM and SD are so used to spending other people's $$ that practicality doesn't figure into their thinking.

dakotamom's picture

this is the exact same as our BM. ss18 was looking at state school $7000. BM wanted him to go closer to home to the school seh went to so now the pricetag is $20,000. then she has the balls to tell DH to pay 1/3. decree says 18 or completion of high school, whichever comes later. i have a call into my lawyer to see if she can really force us to pay. Good luck though - we have our credit maxed out.
he was excited to go to private "liberal arts college" because he thought it meant he could do whatever art he wanted........

liks's picture

There will be no paying of skids education in this house....if they had been living here...different story...but they chose not too...hell I could have got them a free education in a limestone University considered the best in the world and they would have received 300 bucks every two weeks to go...but no...they dont like me...so hahahaha....go shove it up your arse and get the money off you stupid ugly mother.....

in the meantime...im planning our retirement to Australia....gunnu go live in an RV in the middle of the country where there is no phone nor internet service but we will be so relaxed....just us and the kangaroos....bliss....