I am not crazy!
So remember when I discovered my almost new jar of missing molasses?
WELL, the other day when I was going to make more bread (I do this frequently so I know what I have in the cupboard) - my almost new bag of flour was gone. I had to double check because I just recently used up a bag, and used part of the new one. There's no way I could have used that big bag (I buy large bags) and not known it.
THEN I decide, fine, maybe I did forget...and decide to make some whole wheat bread instead. I just used up a jar of yeast, and I knew there was a new one in the storage area (the old one had a specific expiration date and I remember thinking, "Oh, I can use this up easy before opening the new jar.") NOPE - there is no new jar in the storage area either WTF!? YSD17.
I told DH, well, you are not getting bread today or tomorrow morning because more of my cupboard items are missing. He says, well, I didn't take them. I say, Yeah, I know. There's only one other person (who cooks a lot at BMs, but not here) who would have done so and you KNOW I always write stuff on the list when I run out. DH says, Yes, you do. So I say, no bread for you until tomorrow afternoon (because I will make sourdough with my homemade starter).
So I am going to inventory my freaking storage area this afternoon and there will be no doubt I am not a lunatic. The Best is that YSD will not have anything to eat tomorrow morning - she will now only eat avocado toast in the morning. Not My Problem.
Oh, and yes, DH will be paying for the replacements and my time to go get them.
No, I will not confront YSD as we do not communicate much at all and I'm HARD disengaged. If I do the inventory and things come up missing AGAIN, then I WILL very much engage.