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Submitted by Cover1W on Fri, 06/24/2016 - 9:52pm

SD12s room is a nightmare. She's now actively hiding dirty dishes and utensils in drawers and behind furniture. The last time this happened I told DP no more warnings. I will clean it the way I see fit.
I am trash bagging tomorrow morning.

I am going to also let him know his office is in a similar state and if he doesn't clean it up AND the girls bathroom this weekend I will follow through with hiring a cleaning person. And furthermore if the kitchen gets into the state it was in tonight (I had to clean to cook my dinner) this summer I will be buying all disposable eating wear next weekend. They have one week to prove me wrong on that and any backsliding I pack all the dishwear away.

I am so pissed I am coldly mad. Cold baby cold.

I think my mojito is helping...

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Submitted by Cover1W on Fri, 06/24/2016 - 11:11pm

On second mojito, watching Old Twilight Zone episodes!
DP knows I am pissed about kitchen, started making allllllll the usual excuses. I simply put my hand up, told him to please stop talking.
I had to eat so had to clean and I was done having to do that.

Then went back to my shows.

Not saying anything more as Inthink about next steps. I like the above advice.
BTW I wasn't going to sort. Trash bag it ALL (not only the dishes) and put it in garage...if someone wants the crap someone has to get it.

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Submitted by Cover1W on Sat, 06/25/2016 - 12:02pm

5 tall trash bags full plus one large box. All in garage. DP has not discovered this yet.
Decided that if I find more dirty dish and trash hoarding I will get rid of dresser and nightstand if not used properly.

Left a message with a cleaning person to come clean bath this weekend.

Gave DP warning for kitchen issue or I go ALL disposable.