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Cooooookies's picture

My coworker was driving me home today and we had to stop the car.  We saw a boy outside with a girl knelt down and he had hold of her, pulling her hair and hitting her.  She slammed on the brakes, we got out and she yelled "HEYYYY GET YOUR HANDS OFF HER, WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!??!!"

He let her get up and we lectured him about you don't treat people that way and you NEVER lay your hands on a female like that, EVER!  He kept saying "She's just my cousin, I was only playing."  Told him we don't care who she is you don't lay your hands on people like that.  He just kept saying she's my cousin, I wasn't hurting her!  Well by what we were seeing, you were hurting her.  Don't you ever do that to anyone again.

He was playing it all big and macho but I saw the look on his face.  His eyes were bugging out of his head and he scrambled to let her go.  I really hope he learned something.  We got his name and year as he was wearing a jacket from the school across the street.  I will be calling the school Monday morning.

Little shyte!!  GRRRR!!

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Aniki-Moderator's picture

Good for you and your coworker!!!

Was the girl fighting back (I hope)? If not, I wonder if that POS already has a history of mentally abusing/physically abusing her.

Sad story: One night, a group of us were leaving the bar. In the parking lot, a man had his girlfriend by the arm and was yellng and slapping her. One of my friends ran up, grabbed the guy by the arm and pulled him away from the girl, yelling, "What do you think you're doing?!" Next thing we knew, the gf jumped on my friend's back and started punching him in the head. Turns out they were into that kind of thing and were having a little "foreplay" in the parking lot. SMH

Cooooookies's picture

She wasn't fighting back so we fought back for her.  If he was telling the truth and she's his cousin, there might be a history of him doing this.  Whatever the case, he had the upper hand by a long shot and wasn't going to just drive by and not do anything.  Too many people do that and people like this get away with their actions.

It's a messed up dynamic - the abuser and the abused.  I doubt it was foreplay so much as it was her scared to NOT be on his side.  Sad.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

So glad you two helped her.

Maybe. Maybe not. I had the misfortune to learn one of my coworkers and her partner "switch" at being the Dominant. There are all kinds of interests and fetishes. Some mild, some soooooooo extreme. A few smacks on the arse are one thing. I will never understand things like branding and "knife play". ~shudder~ But, as long as they are CONSENTING adults... *unknw*

classyNJ's picture

It's great that you stopped and helped her.  Most people just drive by.  She could have been so afraid and in serious trouble!

ESMOD's picture

Had a frat boy on a dinner cruise my husband was running go off on his GF for apparently talking to the wrong guys.. He was yelling at her and as she was leaving the boat threw a beer bottle that missed her head by a fraction.  I started yelling at him like WTF do you think you are doing dude.. I believe I threatented to go get my gun and may have disparaged the size of his manhood as he was kicked off the boat.. and reminded that we knew who he was if we found out anything happened to that girl later.

It's scary though.. you don't always know if it's safe to intervene....