Starting to get a little resentful
Munchkin SD14, as sweet as she can be, is really getting on my nerves recently. I dont know what it is, its possibly because shes a teenager now...help me steptalkers, help me off this ledge of resentment Im on.
She is SO FREAKING LAZY.
ive been working all day every day. This is her week with us. NO HELP at all, and dirty dishes in the sink. I guess its lucky that she makes her own food now.
She talks incessantly about nothing, all night. I guess we are lucky that she is communicating.
NOW, she wants a bass. And DH is going to get her an amplifyer to go with it. No discussions with me about noise level.
She just "gets things". Does nothing to earn them.
AT 14, I was dusting and vacuming and cleaning the ENTIRE house. Doing ALL the laundry, folding and putting away.
AND I was working every weekend at a family business.
I know its not her fault, its her lazy parental units, but its causing some resentment. I mean, even Feral Forger was helping...at 13 she was watching her old gma for an entire weekend.
And when I get home, Im expected to cook dinner for DH and Munchkin (who doesnt ever help and is starting to argue about doing dishes)
Our living room armchair, which is peeling for some reason, is her favorite, and somehow she doesnt see the peelings as they gather on the floor! I even put a blanket over it, and asked that she not sit in it. Im going to have DH take the darn thing out, and get rid of it this weekend.
Whew. Thanks for letting me vent. Of course none of this is discussed with her, except how she is having the darn bass shipped to our house...