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Prom-Gate

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 04/18/2022 - 11:54am

WEll, prom went really really well. She was dropped off at our house so, oh well, Toxic Troll Bm got even madder because it was "her weekend", and Id have expected Husbands phone to be blowing up, but this time it was SD B/M's phone. So much drama so little time! 

All I said was "meh, she'll get over it".

I guess Toxic Troll will not be buying her any more things and taking her any more places. Because kiddos is unappreciative (pot calling kettle out).

All kiddo wanted to do was have a nice time. And she did. She spent Easter with us, to "let her mother cool off". I had recomended her going there and spending the holiday with her mother to help with situation. I of course have zero say so...

And the world continues turning.

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CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Tue, 04/19/2022 - 10:48am

oh yes. Shes learning all right - trust me! She played it perfectly right. "Give her space to cool off". Sort of like the silent treatment but somehow nicer.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Mon, 04/18/2022 - 2:15pm

Glad SD had a nice time BUT don't let your guard down clove.. you know how TT, FF, and SD roll. 

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Submitted by CLove on Tue, 04/19/2022 - 10:48am

Oh yes. The triangle that rolls...downhill.

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Submitted by caninelover on Mon, 04/18/2022 - 4:07pm

So you keep doing you and avoid as much of the spillover of TT's drama to your household.  Poor B/M - glad she had a nice prom but her mother is really something else.  

Sometimes the best thing you can do is be an example by living a calm, peaceful, drama-free and happy life.

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Submitted by Rags on Mon, 04/18/2022 - 8:03pm

Living well really is both the best revenge and the best example.

Hopefully the SKids see it, learn it, live it, and love it.

Against seemingly all odds, my Skid did. He has left the shallow and polluted end of his gene pool far in his past and is doing great. While of the three younger also out of wedlock Spermidiot spawned half sibs, (#2) is on the dole, (#3) is in prison and (#4) is not far behind (#3).

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Submitted by caninelover on Mon, 04/18/2022 - 11:34pm

I know we talk alot about disengaging and grey-rocking on this site - because they are key survival skills in step life.

But beyond that - taking care of YOU and living your best life - is not only good for you but also the best example to all the drama steps on how to really live well, I think.