3 day notice, al ho ha ha ha
We were at the dinner table, slurping our rich yummy coconut milk soup, and Munchkin was a bit mopey. Had no idea why. Then she started crying. "how are you do you need me we are here if you need us", said in a high trying to be sweet voice. Then the real deal story. Munchkin and DH went to take care of rabbit at other house during Hawaiian vacation, and Munchkin saw a 3 day eviction notice.
Ive given those...a 3 day notice to pay rent or quit. Toxic Troll is on a bi-weekly payment plan...pay half rent every 2 weeks. $1,400. The notice said, please pay about $700... so FYI, DH pays 300 Spousal support and 347 Child support. And she was using child support for her vacay spending money.
Im furious. Pissed. DH told me "oh theres not much to clean up" (after dinner), and I said "just broken hearts to clean up". Broken people and broken hearts. He doesnt acknowledge that. The nuclear fall out. The broken people, the fragments of lives that need repair.
So, a bit of back story, Toxic Troll, who was caught cheating and DH moved her out, she left her children with Dad, for MONTHS at a time. But then, they get on a schedule, and she is then mother of the year again.
Munchkin - crying again about her mothers problems. Munchkin has a solid home with us, but co dependent and enmeshes as she is, will still cry over her mother's inability to step up to the plate and BE a mother. Toxic Troll is so selfish and self serving, and doesnt care who she hurts. Destructive. But of course. Munchkin still loves her mother...