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Chmmy's picture

Last nite of vaca. Leaving early in the morning. I miss DH. BM didnt pick up the kids Friday, then made another excuse Saturday so now when DH picks me up at airport he'll probably have the little skids with him. I asked him to try to pick me up alone. I just want one hour with my hunny in the car without skid voices. I called him today and I had to get off the phone when I heard their annoying voices. Im really awful. They are not the spawn of satan but I cant stand the sound of their needy, demanding, annoying voices. Crazy how much I love my neice & nephew and their friends. Their voices dont make me cringe. When they walk in the house or wake up in the morning, I smile and say hello. When the skids walk in the door i cringe as they usually walk in demanding something or yelling at someone. I really thought I was starting to hate kids but really its only entitled brats

Got to talk to my sis in law about how wonderful her kids are, how wonderful my kids always were for her and how entitled so many kids are including my skids. Everyone loves DH soooooo much and is pulling for us to get through the hard times with the snotty skids

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tog redux's picture

The skids are entitled and whiny because DH needs to crack down on them with some structure and consequences - is he open to being a better parent so he doesn't lose you?  Since he has them most of the time, he has a chance to make them into decent human beings.

Wifey23's picture

I just joined this page and Your post was the first one I read.  So refreshing to see someone speak so honestly. I would have wanted the same.  I also feel exactly the same about my nieces and nephews too! 

I agree with tog redux above   But I have the same problem and address my DH about it and he shrugs it off and goes about his own parenting style   

Hang in there!!! 

 

Chmmy's picture

Im very honest. DH knows how I feel too just not the extent of how much I really dont like or love them.

Changes dont happen overnight and SD16 seems to be a lost cause. The little skids SS12 & SS10, I have hope for as decent humans as I have seen HUGE change in them since I have been around but they are still sooooo not cute and just annoying & obnoxious