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Chmmy's picture

The skids have been out of school for 4 weeks. BM took them for the weekend so that makes it 4 days in June she had time to take the kids or couldnt come up with an excuse. 4 days of 30 and she pays $50/wk for 4 kids(one in college)

Funny how rain(weather) is an excuse to not pick up the kids but we had quite a monsoon today and she managed to not only get the skkds home but git them home early. Funny isnt it?


Letti.R's picture

Is it vacation time?

Can you take your kids out of school for 4 weeks without the school or social service following up?

Chmmy's picture

Yes. It is summer break. What I meant is the 30 days in June while they are out of school on summer break, BM has taken them for 4 days. She just expects us to take care of everything all summer.

pickles45's picture

My SO loves to make comments about how BM passes daughter off to the minute it’s time because she hates spending any extra time with her. (I know the feeling) 

the other day they were somewhere and he made a comment that she would drive off the side of the road if traffic was bad to get his daughter here at 3. She was dropped off at 3 on the dot!!!!

Chmmy's picture

BM is usually about 30 mins early for a 6pm drop off. The CO time is 830 pm but it is a bad idea to have kids get dropped at 830 on a school night so its was mutually agreed that 6 is better. Now that school is out 830 would work but BM likes to get home early for bed

 Imagine that her & her husband like to get to bed early because my husband & I like to be disturbed by knocking at the door for the many emergencies that come up after 10pm

Chmmy's picture

No tog. I thought you would realize by now DH is an idiot. We asked for extra money in the summer for child care. She obliged for one week and then told us that her husband was out of work and she wasnt sure if she could anymore. I told DH then the kids can stay with her and her husband can watch them while she works. He said that's not gonna happen but I dont know why it is any different than sticking the little shits on me? Because I have a vagina im a built in sitter? I spent probably 15 nights away from home in June. The skids are gone for 4 nights over the holiday weekend. If they dont go, I go. DH works on Friday and Im off. I will walk out the door amd he knows it but yet he cant stand up to BM