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Chmmy's picture

So the weather sucks, the snow is dangerous to be out too much driving. DH had a work event he feels obligated to go to. BM used the snow as an excuse to skip her weekend....kinda dont blame her for this one but she really takes any excuse she can get and once again our plans are spoiled.

For both of us to go to this event we would have to drive the boys to grandmas 45 mins away and then another 45 mins to an hour to the event. In the snow those drive times can up to double so I said Id stay home with the kids. I honestly didnt want to drive out there anyways. Glad to have an excuse to stay home & out of the snow.

Im upstairs doing laundry & I hear fighting. Whatever Im used to it the boys are 12 & 10. Then I realize it is SS10 fighting with his friends from school while playing xbox. He's being quite obnoxious and accusing them of lying. It's a game, shut up please. He is such an unlikable kid. Im afraid he'll never have friends or a gf and he will be up DHs ass forever. He's not handsome. He never will be. He's gonna have to rely on his personality to get a girl. Sucks for him :(   SS12 is a cutie but he is kinda weird, maybe on the spectrum, definitely has autistic qualities so will he ever get a girl?

As long as we're talking about skids never pairing up SD16 loves herself very much but she is so average from her looks to her brains but she thinks shes smart & cute so it would be an unattractive trait to think highly of your self when you're so basic. One more SD19. Great personality, big heart and she is so fricken funny. She cant stop gaining weight, maybe up to 250 by now so it's hard to meet someone. Im not putting her down for being overweight just wish she'd love herself more.

Well this is my Saturday night what was supposed to be a date night ending with me in my DHs fav nightie, instead Im steptalking about my skids forever celibacy. Oh well. Spoiled plans happens a lot.

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StepUltimate's picture

...at least your sense of humor ROCKS! Biggrin

It seriously sucks that your date night got canceled due to weather though. I get it.

 

tog redux's picture

My SS19 is a total dick when he plays video games. Can't lose, always narrating everything, brags about himself, calls other people names.  Always has done that.  He's not handsome either, and he's now a "moose" as twoviewpoints said (love it), at 6'2" and at least 250.  AND, he's a giant Mama's boy who never showers.

He still gets girls, somehow.  He comes off as very nice at first, I think - people do catch on after a while, though.

Chmmy's picture

Acts like that at 19. Thats bad. I wonder if that's the future of SS10. 

He is such a sore loser but he loves games. We brought him to family game night with my brother and I told him one word of sore loserness DH was bringing him home and look at that he was able to control himself. He knows that my threats are not theeats but consequences.

tog redux's picture

Could be. My SS has never grown out of being a sore loser.  When he was younger it was awful, but it's still bad.  DH has heard him on video games, berating and blaming the other players on his team for a loss.  He also uses cheats in video games in order to win. He's the same as he was at 10.