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Nothing from BM...ahhhhh

cfmommyof3's picture

SO after 2 1/2 weeks and crazy calls from BM to SD and SD goes back...nothing :jawdrop: We dropped SD7 off Tuesday night. BM didn't even look at DH even after the ear piercing and temp hair dye. No texts or angry phone calls...wondering what is making her hold her tounge...drum roll please!!! (I will let you all know what follows when the storm after the calm hits!) Anyone who has read my blog knows its coming! But SD has learned that her DAD has as much right as BM to make choices like piercing ears and dying hair. At least DH was smart enough not to have SDs hair bleached first! Stupid BM, we wont take it any more! And SD is catching on too!

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WTF...REALLY's picture

Yup, he has the right.

So my SD13 asked both dh and myself if she could get a second earring. We told sure, when your 18.

During her summer visit with BM, she asked her mom and she said yes. So they did it. SD comes back worried we are mad with her and both DH and I said, nope...your mom has just as much right to say yes.

I just hope she does not let her get a tattoo.

cfmommyof3's picture

Just saw this after all this time and completely agree.....Of course I am much calmer about things after 6 months...lol...I have also finally realized while I can love SD to the ends of the earth its not my legal call either way what she does. Man has my anxiety gone down since then...don't know what I would have done without you ladies on here and the wonderful advice! Smile