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And so the saga continues...

Boston Gisele's picture

This has been quite the weekend for BM issues. Friday night her and I had the nice little "chat" which made me think she was even crazier than before and then yesterday, she told my boyfriend that even though SS4 is coming to live with us full time for awhile that she wants half of what we give her for CS now because "SS is going to need a place to stay when he comes back". So pretty much she wants us to pay her rent her rent every month while SS is living with us. Supposedly my bf told her no way and was really unpleasant to her on the phone about it. Of course he wasn't home at the time so who knows if that is true or not. The question is, will he stick to his guns or give in? I'm hoping he will actually stick to his word that no money means no money especially since I stuck to my guns on Friday and told her no you can't come to my house lol (but he did say good job for that!) But we will see what today holds in the ongoing saga!

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3bk1sd's picture

I know that when Skids stay with their nco parent for extended visitation the cs still has to be paid to the other parent. Although this seems really stupid to me,the reasoning is because the other parent still is paying for a larger apartment for the skid as well as keeping a vehicle and whatever other bills are associated with the child.

Gia's picture

I honestly think that courts are retarded. If a parent cannot support themselves, they shouldn't be primary caregiver of their child. If two parents have 50% visitation each, then I think that no child support should be payed at all, and if one parent cannot support the child while having 50%, then that parent should have less, lets say, 30% of the time?

Dirol

mom2five's picture

We still pay "child support" and we have the kids full time. We call it "hush money". It was the only way she would give up custody without a long and drawn out court battle. We used to pay $2700 a month in child support for two kids. We now pay $1200 a month in ex-wife support. Unfair? Yep. But at least my stepkids are being taken care of now that they live with us. And my husband's ex-wife is completely worthless. We didn't want the kids to feel like she had to live in a cardboard box when they chose to live with us.

I have no idea what she is going to do in three years when the $$$ train stops.

Snowflake's picture

No kidding!!! But I doubt the troll would be able to keep a man - with or without kids.