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Why do I feel like such a b$%&*?

borrowedtime83's picture

I am preparing contempt papers for my baby daddy and his mom, who took me to court 4 years ago. They tried to prove me an unfit parent, but ended up sharing e/o weekend. Dad is supposed to have supervised visits, and complete domestic abuse, anger, and parenting classes. Grandma is supposed to have her all day saturday til sun morning when dad is supposed to get his supervised visit. Long story, I have not seen grandma in over 8 months, dad's sisters pick up my child and just give her to dad. Grandma has called CPS on us, after all the other crap she has done. I have had a 3rd party taking photos and videotaping the CO violations at exchanges , and I am currently labeling the photos. I am looking at them and I feel like the hugest ass. There is a picture of BD hugging her grandpa when he picked her up (this is a violation) and one of her and dad eating McDonald's (this is also a violation) I guess I can't be that person that purposefully and vengefully keeps my child away from the other parent/family, even after they lied, kidnapped her, let her witness violence, and generally are not in tune with her best interest, let alone following the CO. I feel like the world's biggest jerk for taking them back to court, but this is about her safety and security! Idk why this is hurting my heart so much!

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12yrstepmonster's picture

If your child is in danger you need to protect her.

There is nothing to feel guilty about.

You aren't stopping visitation. You are saying, follow the CO- that's pretty simple.

Gabriels Mom's picture

You are protecting your child. If she's in danger there's no need to feel bad. Take them to court...sometimes they need to be slapped down a few times to start doing the right thing...maybe this is the kick in the a** they need.