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Moving Away from BM & SD

AtoZMom's picture

So me and DH are talking about moving to a new city and province. we wont be leaving for a least another year (things to get cleared up before we even think about going) the one thing that kind of worries me is DH having to leave his daughter, he has and is fighting to hard to get 50/50 (which he still wont get thanks to BMs bull). What is the usual for this kind of situation where both parents want to have their child when they live in different cities?? not just phone calls and a week here or there. I know a few people who's kids spend school year with 1 parent and summer with the other is this normal or just something worked out with parents mutually ??? I know DH leaving SD5 behind is going to be so hard on him.

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MommyMayI's picture

Oooo this is hard. I have heard so many cases of this. I am pretty sure that if dh moves he can kiss any custody he wants goodbye. He will probably get EOW, split holidays, and at best half the summer. This is what our lawyer told us we would get. Plus cs would go way up. We decided to stay close and just find a better neighborhood.

AtoZMom's picture

unfortunately we don't have the option to stay close...we live in an isolated area so its either stay here and scrap by or move and have the potential to make everything better for our family...sigh

AtoZMom's picture

I'm hoping although for we are having a hard time with her agreeing to week for week let alone having her gone with DH for a summer or even half a summer! it will probably end up in court for the judge to decide,

AtoZMom's picture

I agree with her staying with BM for school and such at least for now. Im hoping this can be worked out with some sort of compromise or something but they way BM is i highly doubt it will work out easily