Keeping kids on Friday night
I have been marreid for three months. My husband works on friday nights. He goes in at 6:00p.m. and does not get off untill 6:00a.m. He expects me to keep one or both of his two kids every Friday night. My SK's live with his parents. I pick them up from school every day. I help them with thier homework, I take them to the doctor. I singend them up for baseball and softball, and I am the only one that takes them to practice. They have not had a game yet. Being a Sp is new to me. I do not have any kids of my own. Anybody with two children or more doing sports know how tired you can get. Any way my husband gets angry when I would like to have a Friday night to myself. I never ask for a Friday night with out one of the kids, but this one time and he got angry. He tells me I don't want to be with his kids and all of this stuff. I don't feel he should be this way because he is not even there for his kids. If he was,then the kids would live with him and not down the road with his parents. His parents have gaurdian ship of them. The kids barley ever see thier mom because she is on drugs. Sometimes I wonder why he had kids. He likes the name "dad" only not the actuall role of dad. What as a SP am I suppose to do, and what am I not entitled to do?