Is it worth it?
I just found this site while searching for anything that might help me deal with my BF's ex-wife and her recent tantrums. We have been together for four months, and it was only last week that she went crazy and twice put their sick almost 3 year old son in the car in the middle of the night so she could come scream at my BF for having a girl at his house. Since then she has been harassing my BF and he has started changing our routines to avoid any drama with her. And he has pretty much shut down emotionally with me. They have been divorced for nine months, and separated for two years. He says she didn't do this with the other girlfriend he has had since their divorce. She left him for another man, a married man who did not follow suit and leave his wife for her. She's really unhappy and now she is on an all out attack to make sure my BF isn't happy either. She has been begging him to get back together for the sake of their son and he has refused. I'm afraid that she will become more desperate, while my BF thinks it will all blow over.
I have to admit that reading all of your blogs here has scared the crap out of me. I love this man so much, and I love his son. I don't want our relationship to end, but I don't know if I can handle the stress to our lives that this woman is causing.
Please tell me that the benefits outweigh the burdens.