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almost.ready's picture

Are you ever afraid that someone might find you on this website? The stories here are so detailed that I feel like someone close to you might find out that you post on this site. What about if you leave your computer open and DH/DW comes and finds you on this site?

And some of the stories on here come from BM's who are SM's but also have kids with SM's/SDad's, do you think that maybe some of these might be stories about your own Bio kids? And YOU are the crazy BM?

Please, no hate. I am just asking because I am new to this site and have been wondering how that might work.

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simifan's picture

DH & SD know I'm on here. I could care less. I haven't said anything here I wouldn't say to their faces.

SituationalTourettes's picture

^^^^^ same^^^^

I calls it as I see it and will repeat anything I say on here to the person's actual face.

sixteensmom's picture

I don't say anything here I haven't said to my dh. Any of my family or skids or bm would totally recognize my stories. I've gone back and deleted some over the years. I suppose I could say no no that's not me, that's another doormat with 3skids who are thankless money grubbing mooch assholes who lived and sponged off their sm while she chased them to love her. then she saw the light and gave them a piece of her mind. then they all left and her life got happy. there *Could* be another person here with that story Smile

CompletelyPuzzled's picture

My FDH knows I am on this site and he has agreed not to invade my privacy by reading my blog. However, even if he did, he pretty much knows everything I post already so I don't worry about it too much. If BM found me on here, she would throw a fit, but I really could care less. I never use names so there isn't much she can do about. Plus, I really don't dislike my Skids so most of the really negative things I say are about BM. And, my FDH agrees with my opinions on here.

emotionaly beat up's picture

If they recognise themselves from what we write then we must be telling the truth. If they don't like the truth about themselves, then they need to change.

Mercury's picture

Exactly.

This is why I don't care if DH, SS(11), SD(12), or BM(crazy) find me here.

It would be so easy for them to recognize themselves. Maybe it's passive aggressive but sometimes I hope they do find this site.

Most Evil's picture

That is why I don't post much about my own situation, just read others and try to support them.

When I have something big I would just take it down after a few days. Use your blog to do this, you cannot remove forum posts. Smile

almost.ready's picture

I agree with those that said they don't care. That's so true, you wouldn't post anything that is untrue. I just joined this site recently and wasn't sure how I felt about dh knowing what I post. But I guess when you are this frustrated it doesn't matter. But for those who do not wish for their identity to surface, I totally understand that too.

AngelOfMisery's picture

At first I was concern but at this point I don't give a hoot. What I post is the truth. I use to be a friendly person who was easy to get alone with. All that change since I met BM. I am not going to set here and play nice while some one runs me into the dirt. You don't like what I write? Then quit acting like a child that stole your best friend and accept the fact it is time to move on and quit trying to get thing back.

Divorce is what it is "THE END" not a "TIME OUT" or a " PUNISHMENT"

GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

DH knows I'mo n here. I show him my posts all the time. (He's actually a member, but rarely posts.) I'm not worried about SS14 finding me. He's pretty much clueless about life in general. As for BM, like someone else said, I don't think she'd recognize herself if she read her own story.

furkidsforme's picture

DH knows I'm on here and while he never talks about my posts once during a fight he brought up something I said about SS here. So I know he reads it.