I am so frustrated I don't know what to do I recently separated from my husband (2.5 years) , we share two children together, a 17 year old daughter and an 11 year old son. Neither have ever given us any grieve or problems. We've been blessed with amazing, respectful, good children.
My boyfriend & I have been together 2 years now... He has 4 children... 16 year old daughter, 14 year old son, 13 year old son & 3 year old daughter. The boys live with him full time.
He lies my concern. His 14 year old smokes pot daily, drinks, goes 'car hopping' (stealing from people vehicles).. He has little to no rules... Basically is allowed out whenever and wherever he wants. Has already been in trouble with the police once. My partner & I fight often about parenting. We obviously differ greatly.
He is afraid if he pushes his son will run away to live with his mother.
This is what happened with his oldest daughter.... When I was first around she was doing the same things... He finally put his foot down and said play by my rules or get out... She left. Tonight we argue.. After watching his son and 2 of his friends walk out the front doors... Backpacks in toe at 10:45 pm... He says don't make me choose between you or my kids.
We are supposed to be moving in together in 6 weeks... I can't handle this... I don't think I can live like this...
Do I walk away from the man I love?
So sad & frustrated