I've heard some crazy stories about DH's ex from him and his family and friends. But we've been together for a couple of years now and while I've heard some of her crazy talk on the phone she's usually on her best behavior when I'm around. So, I took most of what they had said with a grain of salt. Well, Friday I got to experience BM's craziness first hand.

I have two stepdaughters whi I have always spoiled rotten at xmas. In April they decided they hated me and said they have never needed a thing from me so why start now...my dilemma is I do not want to buy them anything for xmas...is it wrong? I did pic up a few things from their father and will only sign his name. I haven't received an apology from either one in 8 months so I only want to abide by their wishes....very torn.

Yesterday FH went to meet SD10 for a walk, it was not his weekend but she wanted to see him.
When he came back home, he was kinda sad.SD smelled really bad, had dirty finger nails,yellow teeth, greasy as heck hair, dirty smelly clothes, he said he was so disgusted he did not even want her to get into the car for the ride over to the park. She has been cursing a whole lot again too.
When asked she said she did not bathe or brush teeth in a whole week!

Hello Ladies!

PITA 16 refuses to talk to or visit his mother. They have had an on again/ off again relationship for the last 3 years. They are in an off phase now. I'm not really sure what happened over the summer when he did spend a bit of time there, but he came back, saying he wanted nothing to do with her, ever again.

She pretty much nailed her own coffin when she went and bought herself the car she had promised to buy for him...

Ugh. I am annoyed with myself and this supposed "Holiday Spirit" or whatever it is that makes me less spiteful, more helpful and genuinely more forgiving. I suppose one might think it is religion but honestly, I am just agnostic, not Christian or anything identifiable.

I am annoyed not because I sent BM a Christmas card but that is not because I wanted to be kind - that was sort of spiteful ... I put her boyfriend's last name as her last name on it ... Well? SHE should change her name. I married a butthead and am a SM so I have earned the right to change my name to his.

I have a 9 yr old sd whose father thinks she can do no wrong. I have a 3 month old baby girl with him and as a first time mom I would like to think she'll do no wrong too but I know that's not true. Anyway, one night she told him to shut up and I was in the hall doing laundry, heard it and peeked around the corner and said "Young lady, we don't talk like that in this house." Her eyes bugged out like she couldn't believe I heard that and started to cry crocodile tears because she knows daddy hates to see her cry.

This has been a question on my mind since my discussion with FDH earlier today. We do not live together (been together for 5 years) and he wanted me to come over to "fix" the issue with his daughter. I told him that no, HE needed to fix it, not me. FDH of course got hurt and upset by that and started in with the so this is how you are going to deal with this crap? Yes, this is how I'm going to deal with it. I told him that I was sorry but that I was done being put in the middle and getting all of the blame.

However, most of the time, he's really awesome.

I just didn't want anyone to assume he's an asshole and I'm a moron who stays with an asshole if I happen to bitch about anything he does at any point.

}:)

Sorry, I guess I'm bored tonight.

L

My husband ex wife it very crazy she never leaves him alone and he doesn’t want to be bother my her earthier she calls him all the time for stupid crap to tell happy birthday or farther day.