its weird cuz i dont care, i want him to find someone else, but hes such a go**@mn liar!

stupid me went through his phone to see if he still had that 'savior' contact saved that i posted about a few weeks ago. well i found some text messages from him to another girl saying "you still have that black thong" and "are we ready for some fun?" and "i hope there are no delays this time" (as in im thinking they tried to set up something before but it fell thru) and he got a dirty text message forward from her with some girl bent over and he said "I wanna do that to you"

Hi ladies (and a few gents). This is my first post. I have been reading for the past month as I had reached the crisis stage. I have taken so much solace from all your wisdom and experience. It meant so much to realize I wasn't the only one who was tormented in this situation. Sadly, there is no saving my situation with only one of us working on it while the other cuts me no slack and extends no compassion. But I've already given everything - he's not getting a soft landing from me too. Like many of you, this was MY house and I'm tired of feeling like an unwanted guest.

Because of spring break we didn't see ss all of March. It was SO nice! Dh and I had nothing to argue about. But the month is almost over and ss will visit again this weekend. Oh well, it was nice while it lasted! Also, by this weekend, dh has to inform bm of the dates he wants ss this summer. I have been trying to talk to dh about it but he blows me off. This man never takes vacation so has about 3 weeks left this year. Yet he doesn't seem to want to use any of it when ss is here. Hmmm....wonder why.

Well, I got informed that bf is going to take his daughter tonight due to her new apt furnice doesn't work. Hahaha come to find out she didn't turn her gas in her apt. She gets an A for dumbass.

My DH has full custody of SD10 with BM having supervised visitation. Well, since we got married in November she has decided to take more of a motherly roll in her daughters life. She doesn't work and is a respiratory therapist! Yeah right I know. Anyway, she was ordered to pay child support and hasn't paid the first dime. My husband took her back to court in November and she was given 6 months to find a job and begin paying. Well, she still isn't working to my knowledge. So the problem is that her mother has hired an attorney to take DH back to court in July for joint custody.

So,
Back in December everything seemed kind-of "fine". Things weren't great with MIL nor SIL nor BIL but at least it was calm... then the hurricane came.
This year, SD will switch to a private school, and BM started looking for private schools that she found acceptable. She didn't have a job but was 100% sure DH would cover anything she proposed.

had no manners at the dentist office. A six year old boy comes in for cleaning. His 29 yr old BM escorts him in; he is not happy that he's at the dentist. Most kids aren't but this kid was doing the "Prince Hygiene" shuffle. Non existent chin to chest and scuffling feet slowly.

The dental assistants go out of their way to make this kid happy/smile. One older lady offers him a sticker. Does he say "thank you?" Of COURSE NOT. He just grabs it away from her, peels off the sticker, wads up the backing paper and hands it to mom to throw out!!!

I’ve been dreading this weekend since SS (6 and 8 ) would be visiting. Every time they’re here the past few months has been a nightmare, but this was worse than ever. But afterwards, I finally feel like there might be a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s not going to be easy, especially for my DH, but once we make it past this, hopefully things will get back to normal.

I'm new to this guys so go easy on me.

Soooo before getting into a huge argument with SO this weekend about...what else, the damn DIVORCE...he gave me a little update on the latest BM scam.

A little background first: