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Ninja chick's picture

Ok so I am the step mom of a 4yr old brat. We recently found out the kids aren't even his. I have known the kids for a Lil more then a year but now I want nothing to do with them. It's not fair to the kids but I still love him. What do I do now?

f*** tgif i am exicted to say TGIS almost

ch21's picture

counting down the hours until these monsters go home. i know that i do not exactly love them coming over to start with but my db makes it worst. don't get me wrong he does discipline a little but it just pisses me off that he makes excuses for their behavior. like seriously just accept the fact that ur kids have hardly any respect for u are any kind of authority.
he says well look at their moma! i mean yeah she is garbage but if he would just quit with the part time daddy syndrome it would be better and stop making excuses and start taking action shit.

I DON'T want to do this anymore!!

mommy_of_4's picture

I have been fighting an on going battle for nearly 6 years. You think things are getting better and then more shit starts. I live with sd13 who is a pathelogical liar. She is purely evil and is a sympthy whore. You put those 2 together and its a really REALLY bad combination. Then you have sd17, who doesn't live with us but is completely obsessed with daddy dearest. I guess her friends could care less about her life and so then she turns to daddy for the sympathy and attention. DH has developed this obsession with precious sd17 and they text ALL the time.

BM is blocked from DH's FB but messages him through SD's FB account

stepmom31's picture

I am now finding this out. BM used SD's FB account to msg DH.

Started with "Hi, this is X" then talked about how they will manage SD's FB usage and ends with "I dunno why've you've blocked me on FB, I already know what you look like ;)"

DH actually replied to the part about SD, saying that it would be "awesome!!!" if he knew her password and could monitor her usage as requested by BM, but no response about blocking her.

Moms killing their children. Not as rare as we might think. And .... apparently BMs are the ones doing it in most cases.

Rags's picture

So much for the evil Sparents. It looks like the BPs are much deadlier to their kids than we Sparents are.

Link to article:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_when_mothers_kill;_ylt=AsO6rFMcAJSv7qZbFyD...

Don't ya hate it when karma bites you in the butt?

panda's picture

Well, for the past week, Hubby and I have either been: fighting, not speaking, or icy polite. This morning we were talking about Demented and how I felt about SS going to her house. He said, "I did it for SS." (Remember, Demented scheduled a party for him even though it wasn't her weekend and told SS about it when he called the Friday that she was supposed to have him.) I asked Hubby if he ever once called her out about her game playing and manipulating? He said not in those types of words, but he had told her that from now on the schedule would be emailed or otherwise written out.

kind of long i really need to talk to someone

CaptainD's picture

I don't know how to start.

I honestly don't know who is at fault for how my marriage is turning out.

I know I have done things/said things that were wrong. But I also know he has, too. He just doesn't think he has. It seems like.... he thinks that because he has kids, everything he does is justified.

where is the light at the end of the tunnel?

ch21's picture

the kids are here and they are driving me crazy. the little girl woke up at 10 am wanting to swim at 68 degrees and the dumb daddy lets them. which i don't care if they want to freeze so be it, but he allowed my 3 year old to go to wtf? he then sees i take my daughter and put her in the warm bathtub so he then follows. he puts his 6 year old daughter in the tub with my daughter. WTF R U SERIOUS ASSHOLE? DISGUSTED. to make matters worst he attempts to put his 3 year old son with his little swimmer diaper on in the tub too> so this is when i lost my cool.

Re-appearance of the ex-wife (not BM)

jojo68's picture

I know I shouldn't have but I opened the computer to check my Facebook and it was still logged on to FDH account and I saw his messages. There was one from his ex-wife (not BM)...she said that she was moving back to the area and wanted to see him and his daughter and then it said it has been a long time FDH name.

Annoying SDIL

cmwolfe1264's picture

Someone posted a new pic of my SIL w/ one of her gds and I made a comment about it. My SDIL who has attacked me on FB many times interjected w/ a comment about Gma pride and said how beautiful SIL is. While it sounds very innocent it isn't!! She's making a dig at me cuz I'm not really a Gma. All of my sgkids call me Gma always have. But now my SS and his wife won't let me be around their kids and say I'm not their Gma. So I know she's trying to let me know again that I 'm not a Gma.

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