well Im off to the said family gathering with SD13 in tow........My bio's have a life and arent going.....so just me and the mute one.......GOD PLEASE GIVE ME STRENGTH!!!!!!!
I wish I could just video her and play it here...along with her "normal" home behavior for you all to see...
I honestly have a head ache from the dread i feel of taking her and having her be a rude butt head!
Will post an update later......PRAYERS PLEASE!!!

So we filed a motion in court yesterday to find the BM in contempt of court and to modify resdential custody. Can't wait til she gets the paperwork. Hope I become the proud mama of two more boys living with us full time.

So last time my youngest SD lived with us, we kicked her out because one day I came home early for work and caught her and another SD in our backyard smoking weed while their kids were home. This was already her 4th chance. Before that she moved out, and we made her sign a contract to move back home. So now we are on to her 5th chance.

It appears that SD might move in with her bf at the end of the summer. Do we pay support to her????????

She will be 20 and in school fulltime (and we live in one of those states that you pay until 21). But in my opinion...it's a a hell NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyone out there experienced this?

BM has lost not just her mind but her dignity, self respect, sanity, common sense and any semblance of humanity in the last few days. I understand that she is not happy that she is no longer receiving CS and now has to pay it. Instead of putting on her big girl panties one foot at a time and hauling them up, tying a knot and getting to work on life and budgeting she has gone into a drama mode that would cause Paris Hilton, Lindsey Lohan and the entire Kardashian clan to cringe and blush.

Where is Foxie?

Did you know you have to post 10 words for it to be considered a blog?!

This seems to be a big topic lately, so let me give my opinion. Yes it works. I know it does because I'm still married. i found Step Talk 2 years ago, when I started noticing my life was unraveling. I lurked and read other people's advice and stories for awhile, and then jumped on. But i wasn't convinced about this whole concept of "disengagement."

Facebook is slowly moving into MOY territory. Lots of skids will be posting pictures of their mothers to show how wonderful they think BM is...

I'm dying to see if Princess will change her profile. I doubt the boys will. I'm hoping Princess would be smart, and maybe post a picture of her, me and Loca Grande, from Graduation or something. I could share the spot light. But if she only posted Loca Grande, or the two of them together, i know I will feel heart-broken.

My mantra for the next 48 hours is, "I've been the REAL mom."

On Princess's FB page this morning, I can see Loca Grande's profile picture, and it's a photo I took a month ago! It's of Princess and Lazy Boye, the only two children she acknowledges right now. But I didn't give it to her. I haven't shared any pictures with Loca Grande since Christmas, because she got mad in January when I called her out on some bad behavior of hers...

Okay I have been away for some time and some things took place. For ond bm finaly left. She and dh agreed she wld take ss for a med check up and guese she hasnt coled and her cell and her family are out of reach. Dh thinks she crossed the border with him. She migh have so be it.