I am trying so hard to disengage and have me time. ( FYI I finalley got my car back and he fixed his truck. ) Well I've been telling him for months wash your kids sheets there rm smells like piss. I open there window and light a candel daily. He won't do it so I finalley did. Unless I make him he won't bathe them while there here. He will let his youngest run in a piss diaper half the damn day. First thing I do is get the youngest changed right when we get them from BM because we have got the youngest with blisters numerous times.

Bs20 if finally home after a long stay in the hospital due to major health issues which are no fault of his own. We made hm leave college so he could rest and recover and take care of himself. Yesterday at the market he looked upset. I asked him what was wrong and he told me, mom I'm so mad, all dad did yesterday was talk sh*t on how YOU ran ss23 off.

Stains new crash pad is at his mothers. Yes the same woman who kicked him out a year ago when she could no longer financially profit from him living with her. This is also the same woman who has kicked her son out twice already and the last time she called the cops and said she feared for her life to make it difficult for Stain to get his belongings.That explains how and why they are ganging up on their campaign of hate towards anyone and everyone who won't give them money. Stain's roommate kicked stain out.

~~Happy Note~~
Baby C just took his first steps.

So SD12 posted on her Facebook status the other day that she is moving and is "very sad." I asked stbx-H about it and he said she'd called him the night before and told him but said she didn't know where and that BM wouldn't tell her when she asked. I asked H if he talked to BM but of course he said "no" because in true min-wife fashion stbx-H usually communicates with BM through SD12, allowing SD12 to make decisions and then trusting that SD12 will consult with BM on her own.

So ss15#1 comes home and is surprised to see me and babies still here. Hmmm.. Well he has been setting this up for a while now apparently. He is telling BM all kinds of lies to get me arrested or to make me take the babies and leave. Well, with that said, FH still let him go to his football game last night and we all went as a family to watch. The BM and sister19 were there. SS15#2 is very upset about all of this and confronted BM and sister19. Wow!! What a mess I walked up to. Sister19 started yelling at me calling me all kinds of things, saying I ruin their lives.

I have a feeling that I might be visiting this site off and on for.. hmm.. years maybe? So, i should probably get this blog going.

Quick summary:
Dating a 31yo divorced guy who has a daughter. BM is a "socially nice" person with a TON of insecurity issues, self esteem issues, family issues and so forth. Meaning, if you were to meet her she would be really sweet and nice to you but that doesn't mean she isn't stabbing you behind your back.

So my BS with stbx-H turned 2yo yesterday and the birthday party is tonight.

My BF seems to think I'm really overreacting to this, but it's bothering me A LOT.

If you read my previous post, it mentions that he's been going to the local bar a lot. Well, we argued about that a bit, but he seemed to be making an effort to come home when he says he would, so I felt better about it and moved on. I should mention that I really, really don't like to be worrying about issues like this. It brings me down to an awful level, so I like to resolve things and move on.

So FDH goes into the hospital today to pre-register or whatever for his surgery that's supposed to be on Monday. Registration has no information for him, so send him up to the GI clinic to figure out what's going on. Turns out the surgeon who is supposed to perform his surgery won't even be in town; in fact he's flying out *that* morning at 1 am! However, between the time when his surgery got moved up yesterday and then cancelled today, the original June 6th date is no longer an option - the ER for that date/time has already been re-scheduled for someone else. Freakin' seriously!!!!!!!!