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Acting_Matrigna's picture

Hello everyone! I am new at this and like many, choosing to give it a shot. I am a young woman who is dating a guy who is pratcically doubled my age and although I love him and have come to appreciating and enjoying his companionship, I've realized the uh-ohs in accepting him PLUS his package. He has custody of his two kids who are teens and closer to my age than me to my guy. Although they don't seem to have an issue with that-I'm finding it difficult in other areas.

typical hypocritical behaviour....

Hogger's picture

so my stepsons BM, has a new 'friend', she doesn't want us to know because if he eventually moves in this will directly affect her support. My fiance asked his son one day at dinner if this new 'friend' in Mom's life was her bf, all we got was he is Mom's friend. My fiance only asks this question in concern for his son's well being, BM's last boyfriend beat her up and caused some serious pscychological damage to my SS as he saw the end result. The next day we get a text message blasting us for asking about her life and that we have no right to know anything about her. Fine.

Life Insurance Beneficiary

Soon-to-be-Step-Mommy's picture

DH and I have been married a little over a month now. We each have life insurance policies provided for us through our employers. I have had my younger brother listed as beneficiary up until now. DH suggested I change it to him now that we are married. I was just thinking this morning...if I change my policy, will he change his policy to list me as his beneficiary? Or will he keep it as SD? I'm willing to bet he keeps it as his SD. Is this fair? What is everyone's thoughts? I don't know why I have never thought to ask him that question when the subject came up in the past.

SS got his way

regret88's picture

one tuesday day SS9 started a huge fight between DH and BM. DH said to BM on the phone "fine come pick him up" and DH left for work. SS was standing at the front door waiting to be picked up. it took her an hour to come get him. while he was standing at the door he was singing!!!! I said to him " what just happened is nothing to be singing about" Ss said "i know". so finally BM picked him up ss said bye to me and i told him to shut the door, while shutting the door I hear BM yelling "did you get all your clothes" .

help!!! I am being held hostage by my wife!!!!!

cabbage58's picture

I have the only 2 stepsons that the police come to your house and pickup at 7am. Over minor infractions and my wife hustles to get them out( well I certainly was'nt going to get involved). The oldest son had a warrant for assault of his stepfather (yes,me) He stabbed me with a fork to the head. Yes,I have recovered
and I am planning revenge or escape for my wife and lovely CHRISTIAN children.I have caught them selling drugs on a number of occassions and turned them in to the police.I love my wife and I think she loves me but I think she loves them more than me and herself.

Divorce laws in MA are CRAZY

Anon2009's picture

I was talking with my mom today. One of my cousins on her side lives in MA and he just got divorced. He is now seeing a wonderful woman who earns big $$$$. He's also stuck paying his ex-wife alimony forever :sick:

He wants to marry this girl, but if he does, then her earnings will be calculated into the amount of alimony he has to pay his ex-wife, who is a nutjob!

Let's all write to and call our state and national senators and representatives- these laws have to change! Don't stop calling until significant changes are made!

New Here!

masonsmom's picture

Hello..Must say I am so glad to have found this site! I have a private group of FB where a few friends and I are trying to get a support group going! We all seem to have similar issues with our SK's! I don't even know where to begin. MY husband and I have been together almost 4 years. WE have a BS who is 2 and I have know my SS since he was 2. I have dealt with my DH's crazy ex trying to break up our relationship way to many time! I hate her so much not to mention the fact that she is a selfish, lazy, crazy Mother to my SS who is 6.

17 this week and still wants to hold her dad's hand in public. Are you kidding me?

Sterling's picture

It never ends. She truely wanted to hold her dad's hand out in public at Home Depot. Saying, "daddy, please hold my hand." After he says no way she is actually wondering why he said that.
Can you say mental issues? I can't take this anymore.

Bugs, Bugs, go away so my SDs can play!

Kita.Marie's picture

Does any one out there have anything that may help with my SD5? She is scared to death of bugs. SD6 is too, but not like SD5. Just a brief on the bug issue. When SD5 was 2 she was visiting her BM and was not watched closely, got into an ant bed and when we arrived to pick them up from their weekend stay her foot and leg were so swollen that she could not bend her knee nor wear a shoe. We took her to the doctor bc we were worried bc they were fire ants and they were all festered. They tried to count the un-popped bites and it was over 100. CPS got involved but that's a different story.

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